Over the years, since 2012, when we ran a rehabilitation home, we've sought to do something special for our children every Christmas. In 2012, we had our very first Christmas party, and it was a great success. We anticipated that we'd do the same in 2013. However, come 2013, we were no longer housing street children, but working with them in the community, as we took a break to evaluate that initiative. Instead, we did follow up visits, and took Christmas to their homes.
By Christmas 2014, we'd enrolled the first ten children into our then new Disadvantage to Advantage Initiative and did our first Santa Drive to their various homes and communities, where we shared gifts and provisions to the kids and their families. In 2015, we didn't have a party, as it was the Christmas we partnered with Ultima Limited to scout for five talented children to support to achieve their potential in the FLA Talent Search. It wasn't til 2016 that we decided to host another Christmas party for our children, which they very much enjoyed. Interswitch Nigeria came along with gifts to make it more special.
We held another Christmas party, come December 2017, which the children were tasked to plan. They had a great time doing so, and we also went out swimming. In 2018, we had A Christmas to Remember, our biggest celebration yet. We invited children on our waiting list and their families, who we gave Christmas hampers, as well as our FLA Kids, as we hoped to link them with sponsors.
We hoped to carry on the tradition, but aside from the kids having a great time, celebrating with each other and their families, and taking home gifts and provisions, we wondered about the impact of these celebrations we plan for the kids each year, especially when a sponsor mentioned that she thought the families would prefer the physical cash than the money spent on these events. It made us think and reconsider our plans for 2019. We really do appreciate the feedback and contributions of our sponsors, and we'd like them to feel we are making the best of their donations, in bringing joy to our kids and empowering them for a fairer life.
So, last Christmas, we planned the Secret Santa Christmas, instead of hosting a party for our kids. We sought out to learn more about the needy families in our local community and link them with sponsors, who would give them just what they need; for their family, children and/or business. We anticipated that a lot of people would key into this but, unfortunately, we didn't get a lot of support with this and were only able to gift seven families in need, out of the 100 we assessed and appealed for. We shared about each family (using pseudonyms) via our Instagram page, but as a recap:
1. The Anthonys, a family of six, got N50,000 towards their business and financial needs;
2. The Bunmis, a family of five, got N20,000 towards food and provisions for the family;
3. The Bayos, a family of seven, got N20,000 towards provisions and N30,000 to help with the family business;
4. The Collins, a family of six, got educational sponsorship (to the value of N100,000) for one of their kids (she is now enrolled in school and her 2nd term fees have been settled by FLA);
5. The Demolas, a family of four, got N50,000 towards clothing and food donations;
6. The Ekes, a family of seven, got N50,000 towards clothing and food donations;
7. The Fadekes, a family of five, got N50,000 towards their rent.
Regardless, we took our kids out to the Palms Shopping Mall ahead of Christmas, and gave them cash to get the gifts they really wanted, instead of us buying gifts for them this year. A lot of them seemed to prefer this, while others were spoit for choice and said they'd prefer if we had gotten the gifts for them. In addition, we sent money to each of the families we support, to help them with their needs over Christmas. The total costs of these amounted to what we would have spent on a Christmas party (even more), and we hoped that the families would each put these donations to good use in getting the things they really need or just having an enjoyable Christmas.
So, what do you think? To party or not to party? Is it a good investment planning activities and events that will help our kids to forget about their troubles and feel loved, once in a while, or are the practical gifts really the way to go? We'd really appreciate your feedback.
We'd also like to use this opportunity to say thanks for entrusting us with your hard-earned cash. Really, thank you! We really want to make the world a better place, and we are trying all we can to make the impact where we are.
God bless you, and have a fantastic 2020!
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Nooo... We don't have money to give away. You may have hoped to read, "Who Wants To Be A Millionaire?" Well, get in line!
But really, who wants to be a secret santa? A lot of people may not mind being santas, who give gifts to children and those in need, but not a lot of people want to do so secretly... Well, maybe that's you!
Alright, here's the gist. We planned earlier in the year that, instead of having a Christmas party for the FLA Kids this year, we could do something special for the poor community where we reside. We would have loved to carry them along each year, but we've only been able to focus on our kids. However, this year, we thought we would like to link each family with a sponsor, who would give them a special and personal Christmas present. Though the families won't know their sponsors, the sponsors will know a reasonable bit about their chosen family, so that they can give a meaningful and thoughful gift. It's really a different way to look at giving at Christmas!
We started the legwork for this in September, after our Summer Programme and much needed break. Our social workers passed out forms to the residents of the Jakande estate, who are mostly impoverished, struggling families, to learn more about them and their needs, and to know what their Christmas wish was, if they could think of something. Answers ranged from providing educational support for their children, jobs for unemployed parents to clothing and food for the family. Though the forms have been slow in coming back, we now have 75 families that we would like to match up with sponsors.
It's November, so we are kicking off with our campaign, while still gathering more information on the residents. We are hoping to link up 100 families with secret santas this Christmas. And we are also hoping that the gifts won't just be for the season. Some of the children we met are really bright, and we would like to support them through our programme, but they need sponsors. Hopefully, we can make some real, lasting connections between our secret santas and their families! If this sounds like a great idea, we would really appreciate your support to make it happen.
In other news... Our kids are doing great! Most are enjoying the mid-term break now, while some of them are still waiting to get into University or higher education. We got them together at the end of September, on the Sunday before our Independence Day, to enjoy a play at Terra Kulture, Lagos. It was a nice, culturally relevant drama, called "The Night Food". They really enjoyed this social activity. Though we won't be having a party for them this Christmas, we plan to also share gifts with the children in our care. This will be made possible through their child sponsors, who have been so faithful!
Thanks for all you do to encourage us, inspire us and bless us in this work. May God bless and empower you too! We've added pictures from our recent activities. More are available via our website. You can also read our post about the summer programme, which is on our blog. Thanks again!
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Ahead of our Summer Programme which kicks off tomorrow, 5th August, for the FLA Kids, we got to chat with one of the children who has been sponsored through our programme and has now completed her secondary schooling. Chioma has always stood out in her intelligence and character, as one of the leaders of Tomorrow! She's an outspoken, bold and bright young lady, who has participated in several of our debates and taken initiative whenever we've organised events. She's an aspiring lawyer, and she's very grateful to her sponsors, Shiv Lila Polymers Ltd, who have supported her since April 2015 to keep pursuing her dreams.
Below is our chat via WhatsApp. It has been slightly editted for more clarity and focus.
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Chioma: Good afternoon, ma.
Ufuoma: Hey, dear. Congrats on completing your secondary schooling!!!
Chioma: Thank you very much, ma.
Ufuoma: So... How are you today?
Chioma: I'm very good, ma.
Ufuoma: Do you remember when you first learnt about Fair Life Africa?
Chioma: Of course I do. I heard it from my mum that through my school I would be sponsored by an organization.
When I got the news I remember feeling so lucky. Those things that hindered my education had come as a discouragement to everything I had planned for my self and everything I had hoped to achieve had all been wiped away. By that name "Fair Life Africa", I was instantly motivated and everything just seemed to fall in place and it made me feel special and safe.
Ufuoma: Yeah, I believe your school referred your family to us in 2014. Do you know the challenge you were facing as a family at the time? Care to talk about it?
Chioma: It's basically financial issues... We are a big family, along the line I think because of unfortunate circumstances my parents couldn't keep up with our basics.
Ufuoma: You said you had dreams and plans for your future that seemed dashed until FLA came along to revive them... What are these dreams/plans?
Chioma: Being able to have an effect in productive change in regards to things around me. Being a lawyer also, to be able to determine the importance of the truth... There's nothing more effective than dealing with the law.
Ufuoma: Have you always wanted to be a lawyer?
Chioma: In my heart, yes. People will always give their opinions on what they think is best for you, though.
Ufuoma: Okay, but you know what you want. That has been clear with you. What would you say the greatest thing you gained from your school is?
Chioma: Yes it has. The greatest thing I gained from my school should be how we were never encouraged to relax. We were always reminded that immediately you get past a stage you should fight harder with the next one.
Ufuoma: Hmmm.... That's interesting. So, you found that strategic or motivating towards success?
Chioma: Very! I feel even to the point where you think you would like to get to, when you finally arrive, move higher than just that.
Ufuoma: Keep aspiring for greatness! So, how do you feel now that you've completed Secondary School?
Chioma: To be honest. A little tense and there's need for perfection. I keep giving myself these talks to help me focus and grow in order to meet my aim.
Ufuoma: You don't feel relieved, happy or excited?
Chioma: I do feel relieved... So relieved!
Ufuoma: Lol! One down or two down, two to go...? Do you plan to do a Masters or PHD? Or just to get a degree?
Chioma: I do plan to do my masters. I have always!!
Ufuoma: What type of Law do you want to specialise in?
Chioma: Corporate law.
Ufuoma: Why?
Chioma: I find that if I'm really good at it I can make lots of money. And then I have always been intrigued at the confidence and strategy that one has to bring to be the best! I'm also very persuasive.
Ufuoma: Cool. So, do you know Shiv Lila Polymers are your sponsors?
Chioma: I didn't. I hope they know how grateful I am.
Ufuoma: Okay. If you could meet one of their representatives, what would you like to say to them?
Chioma: I would say that I am highly appreciative. And I know how much faith they'd put in into helping me and I would like to assure them how I wouldn't joke with the opportunity. I am grateful and I say a big thank you. They have impacted my life a great deal and I plan on making an impact to the world with their generosity.
Ufuoma: Awesome! So, our summer programme is coming up next week. Are you excited?
Chioma: I'm not because I wouldn't be able to attend, ma. Aunty Ifeoma mentioned it to me but I started an internship job and I wouldn't be able to make it
Ufuoma: Oh no :( But great about the internship! Where is that?
Chioma: It's at Lekki Phase 1. They are a retail company.
Ufuoma: Okay... Not related to law then...
Chioma: No... I tried though. But with my little or no experience partaking that yet, I was advised to engage in anything else I could gain from.
Ufuoma: Okay, cool! Only a few more questions... How have you found the FLA Summer Programmes? Is there a particular year that you felt was most impactful?
Chioma: They have been wonderful. The year we talked about inequality and how females should be regarded equally as males. We got to share different views and we felt people connecting.
Ufuoma: That's great.
Chioma: We also had to help with cleaning the environment as a way of giving back. That made me really happy.
Ufuoma: :) Okay, our theme this year is “Leaders of Tomorrow, Today!” What do you think of that, and of the activities we've scheduled for the other FLA Kids?
Chioma: I think it's great. The encouragement and support is just so awesome and they're so lucky. Wish I could be a part of it too.
Ufuoma: Yeah! You're one of those who shows a lot of leadership potential. I was looking forward to your participation.
Chioma: That means so much Thank you, ma.
Ufuoma: Okay, final question. What would you like to say to other children who are in situations like your family was when FLA came to assist...? And to your fellow FLA Kids who have been given this chance at a better life?
Chioma: To the kids in the same situation I was... I would say, " Don't be to quick to let go of those dreams and ambitions. I promise if you we fight together we'll make it." And to my fellow FLA kids... "Let's do this!!!!! We've always be determined and with this encouragement and love, let's all work hard and become great so we could give back and make every one proud!"
Thank you very much ma. FLA has done more good than words could say... I'm so grateful for it all
Ufuoma: Thanks, dear! And I appreciate this time you've given for our interview tonight. Good luck with your internship! Do keep us posted.
Chioma: I will, I promise! You are highly welcome ma.
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We are so grateful to everyone who has come alongside us to invest in these leaders of tomorrow! Thanks for your faithfulness and generosity in giving. And thanks for all the other ways you have shown your support to our initiative! Do check out our post about the Summer Programme to see what we've got lined up and how you can assist: CLICK HERE. God bless you all!
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Ramon was one of the top five winners of our Talent Search Competition with Ultima Studios, which we did at Christmas, 2015. We already did an FLA Rising Stars post on him, but we wanted to share an update, by way of an interview with him. Ramon is now 19 years old, and a student at Lagos State Polytechnic, where he is studying his passion, Arts. He still has no sponsor, but we've been able to carry him along through the programme, by God's grace and your kind support too! Thank you so much.
1. How did you hear about Fair Life Africa?
I heard of Fair Life Africa when I went for a drawing competition hosted by the organisation. Then I heard they help the orphanage children, build them more on their talents and help the community to grow positively.
2. So, how did you find the competition? Did you think you would win?
Yes, it was good. It was a long time ago though, back in my secondary school days. When I went for the competition then, I never believed I would be a winner. I only prayed and God answered my prayers. I enjoyed lots of benefits as the winner then... Fair Life Africa sponsored me in my artistic life.
3. What sort of support or training did you receive from Fair Life Africa?
They sponsored my visits to lots of art galleries in Lagos. And that enhanced the level of my art experiences... That also made me meet lots of professonal artists, who trained me and taught me a lot of things, under the Universal Studios Of Art. Fair LIfe Africa also provided for me some art materials during my training in Universal Studios Of Art.
4. Great! What are you doing now?
I'm now an undergraduate of the Lagos State Polytechnic in the department of Arts and Industrial Design.
5. How are you finding/enjoying the course? What have you learnt so far?
It's been challenging lately, but with God, everything's going well. My drawing has improved and I now know more things that I didn't know before. I learnt about water washing in graphics, ankara design on paper, sculpting and more. I'm also making and sell artworks while I'm studying.
6. How do you now feel about your future?
Well, with God, I believe my future is bright as an artist.
7. Who is or are your role models (artists and non-artists)?
My artist role models are Pablo Picaso and Leonardo Da-vinci. Then as non-artist, I chose Adekunle Gold as my role model... His songs inspire me a lot and I wish to sing like him... He is also an artist actually but just that he's into performing arts.
8. It's Children's Day on the 27th of May. What would you like to say to the children of Nigeria with dreams like you?
To every child out there, I want to say NEVER SAY NEVER, don't let a little challenge stop your dreams and keep shining. Don't stop the hustle and don't stop being real. Surely, there's light at the end of the tunnel, you shall make it with God by you.
We really believe in Ramon and we hope you will support his work by following him on Instagram @bogunberamon. Thanks for your love and support.
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Last year, we put in all effort to make it a Christmas to remember for our kids at FLA. The difference was we started out early, and reached out to our friends inviting them to contribute towards hampers we wanted to give to our children and their families. And we are so pleased that so many people bought into our vision and supported us to make it a reality!
On the 21st of December, our children left their homes and communities to come together at the FLA Home for some pre-party planning and relaxation at the Piccadilly Hotel and Suites. After they'd rehearsed, they enjoyed swimming and, later, dinner and ice cream. They were up bright and early to prepare for the day's activities on the 22nd. Those who stayed nearby at Ikota came from home, while those living as far as Songo Otta, Ogun State, resided in the home. They enjoyed a lovely breakfast, before changing into their specially designed outfits for the day.
Each child was given ankara fabric to sew a lovely outfit (asoebi) for the event. We thought it was a little better than T-Shirts, because the children's individualism and sense of style shown through, and it's something they can wear out at other occassions too. Their families also attended, as well as 19 children from our waiting list, whom we had invited to come with their families. We ended up catering to over 200 people, but there was food and drink enough!
The children gave their presentations in songs, dance and drama, and Victor (one of the winners of our Talent Search Competition in 2015) was our MC for the day. He was totally awesome! He is really an entertainer. Two guest artistes, Belmon and Ukenn, also came along to grace the day and sang their hit songs for the children. Belmon sang "It's Party Time" and Ukenn sang "Turn Up" and a song he is yet to release, "Special Star". We were priviledged to be the first to hear it. The children got on stage and danced their hearts out. Even their mothers got on stage too!
We also used the occassion to present gifts to our graduates (those who have completed secondary schooling and are moving on to University), and gave special presents to our kids with sponsors. Each of the 46 families in attendance took home a hamper we had packed full of so many lovely food supplies for the Christmas celebration, as well as a whole chicken! They were all thoroughly grateful for the gifts.
We really want to say thank you to every single person who gave towards the event! We greatly appreciate our child sponsors, who give faithfully each month or quarter, to ensure that we are able to settle the fees of all our children. Since the party, we have added four children to those who have sponsors, and we are eager to add more! Please do consider becoming one of our child sponsors.
Aside this event, we were contacted about ten days before Christmas by Chizoba, who was a patient at a hospital in Egbeda, and had been prevented from leaving for months because of unpaid fees. Five other women were with her with similar complaints. One had been there for nine months, and their balances ranged from N50,000 to over N200,000.
We ran a campaign on social media and reached out to a couple of organisations that had partnered with us before. We were able to raise the money to settle all their fees and get them home in time for Christmas! GSI Foundation contributed N210,000 to complete the bills! God bless everyone who trusted us and assisted us in this effort.
But it isn't all good news... We saved the worst for last, because we just don't know how to say it. We can hardly believe it is true, considering all the effort and prayers we put into it. But on the 17th of December, we learnt that Regina, who we had assisted with medical treatment to fight cancer, passed away during a follow up visit to the hospital. It turned out that they had been wrong and the cancer had already spread. It was so sudden and heartbreaking. We visited the family a couple of days later to express our condolences, and also share with them the gifts we had prepared to give them for Christmas, anticipitating that they may no longer participate in our programme.
Regina left behind two children, one of them who is still in receipt of our support. Her school fees for this term has been settled, and her family are preparing for the funeral. This child doesn't have a sponsor though, but we are committed to helping her and her family. If you'd like to know more and how you can support them, please email us at support@fairlifeafrica.org.
We sure hope this didn't dampen your spirits too much. We are optimistic for a great 2019 and wish you a wonderful one in deed. Thanks for everything you do and have done to make our work possible.
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