Jul 19, 2020

Thank you! You made our food donations possible!

Women that picked up food
Women that picked up food

Hello everyone!

Today I am very happy to write you about the success of our food bag donation program. In the last months we have given away more than 2000 food bags – each containing food supplies that last for about one week for each woman. The need is still big and currently we are continuing with giving out food bags every Friday. Women that contact us, get an invitation and they can come on Fridays to our Hair Salon in Soi 6, the middle of the Red-light District and pick up the food.

The situation in the country is still not good. Even though we have had no new cases for about a month now, the restrictions are still severe, and no Tourists are allowed to come in. At the beginning of July, the Entertainment Industry was allowed to open again, and the bars opened. This brought many of the women from Issan back to Pattaya, just to find out, that there is no work. The Bars are full of girls – much more women than before – but there are no customers. Many of the Bars are also no paying salaries anymore but only do commission – which is bad when there are no customers. Now the women sit for 12 hours in the bars and get no money in the end for it…

We received a phone call from a woman that said the following: Can you please help us again with food? We have worked for the last 11 days in our Bar and did not have a single customer coming in even for a drink. We have nothing anymore; can we please have some more rice and fish and sauce? We arranged to meet with them at a supermarket, as it was the weekend, and bought them some needed supplies. They were overwhelmed and some of them could not stop crying.

We are also trying to encourage the women to look for other jobs. We have started on the 3rd of July the next three-month long Tamar Vocational and Life Training and 13 women have moved in with us and are taking part. We are hoping that the new skills that they will learn will help them to find better and safer jobs.

Thank you again for helping us with your donation. Have a look at the attached pictures and you will see how happy you have made the different people!

 For the Tamar Family

Packed Bags ready to go out
Packed Bags ready to go out
Giving out snacks to the hungry kids
Giving out snacks to the hungry kids
women picking up her bag
women picking up her bag
Women that phoned us for urgent help
Women that phoned us for urgent help
More pick ups of food!
More pick ups of food!
Food bags going out
Food bags going out
Jul 1, 2020

Re-start after Covid

Preparing food bags for handing out to the women
Preparing food bags for handing out to the women

Greetings from Pattaya. COVID-19 has affected the Tamar Guest House “new building project”.  Thailand had closed businesses; street vendors; beaches; bars; and entertainment venues.  Because of this, many women had been left homeless and without food, we, at Tamar Center, refocused all our energy on creating food packages for these hungry women and their children.  Currently, Thailand is in phase 5 of reopening.  Most businesses have reopened with restrictions, so many people have returned to work.  Bars and entertainment venues are supposed to reopen on 1 July with restrictions, but since tourists will only start coming back in a few months, customers will be scarce.

We believe that now is the time to purchase our guest house, remodel, and open before tourists come back and Pattaya totally reopens!  So, we are restarting our fundraising for the Tamar Guest House.  We currently have about 6M THB in our bank account for the new building.  Pre-shutdown, the owners of the building offered it to us at 21M THB which we knew was too high based on the valuation we had done.  During the shutdown, they called and lowered their price to 19M.  In order for us to enter into negotiations, we want to raise an additional 3-4M THB or about $100,000.  

So we will restart our fundraising with the GlobalGiving Bonus Day on 15 July. Please join us in reaching the goal of 3-4M THB.   If you donate on Bonus Day, GlobalGiving matches a percent (%) for any gift between $100 and $1000.  

Join our opportunity of turning the”Grey to White” by donating and helping us help more women in Pattaya Thailand.

Some of the people receiving the food aid
Some of the people receiving the food aid
Handing out cookies to the children
Handing out cookies to the children
Women coming to pick up food
Women coming to pick up food
Apr 26, 2020

Thankful for our houses in the middle of Pandemic

Short Meeting to keep our women busy in shutdown
Short Meeting to keep our women busy in shutdown

Hallo everybody!

Many greetings from Pattaya in Thailand and the whole Tamar Family. As most of the world we are currently at home and waiting for the epidemic to finish. Tamar Center is closed since the end of March and we practice social distancing but we are still working from home and are providing food to women that have nothing to eat – sadly there are many thousands that not only lost their jobs due to the shutdown but also their housing due to the fact that they can’t pay their rent anymore. Before we had to close, we handed out 470 food packages to these women and are still in contact with them via social media. We are currently partnering with a local restaurant and another Foundation and all women that contact us in need of food are receiving food vouchers for this restaurant.

Currently we are hoping that some of the government restrictions will be lifted at the beginning of May and we are making plans to concentrate in the first weeks that we are open again on distributing food and accessing the situation to see what is most needed. All Bars and Entertainment Venues are closed now for almost five weeks already and thousands lost their jobs. Even when the restrictions will the lifted it will take a long time before Tourists will come back to Pattaya. Our hope is that there will be a big change in Pattaya and that the Sex Industry will not open and operate like before.

Due to the situation we had to postpone our three-month vocational and life Training from May till July. With the current restrictions we cannot run the training and so we want to wait a bit and make it possible for more women to join the Training.

Thank you for your support of our housing project. All our women are still in our houses and, as we were getting ready to take new women in for the training when the lockdown started, we had some empty spaces. These are used right now to help our women to keep distance from each other and we have one house designated as emergency shelter in case one of our women should catch the virus. Thankfully, all our women are healthy and two new babies were born into the Tamar family in the last weeks as well. We are incredibly grateful for the space and the houses that we have. It really helps to keep our women safe and to give them a safe environment.

But sadly, the virus is not the only problem currently in Thailand. There is severe drought and all of Pattaya has currently only every second day tap water. As you can imagine, this is not nice, especially not when you are home the whole day. We have water tanks in most of the houses and big buckets in every bathroom so that we can catch enough water when the tabs are running to last us through the times when the water is turned off. This arrangement will be on until June when hopefully there will be a good rainy season that will fill up the water reservoirs around our City again.

One not so nice report is that just before the Corona Crisis we tried to help one woman that came to our Center. She was savagely beaten by a customer and terribly upset. We helped her and brought her into our housing to give her some rest. The first two days were very good, she slept most of the time and was very thankful, but by the third day she developed a psychosis. She started to scream, run out of the house at night, just walked the stairs up and down hundreds of time, etc. We tried to bring her to the hospital for a mental checkup, but when we told her that we wanted to do that, she flipped out completely, locked herself into her room and did not come out. She smashed the room and as we were concerned for her safety, we contacted social services and the police, but nobody could help her, and she did not come out. It was a very rough time for our Staff. After five hours, she calmed down, opened the door, walked out, and left and said that we did not honor her. We tried to follow up with her, but she is gone… We are not sure what happened to her, it could have been drugs that she had been taking and was coming down from or a mental illness. We are still genuinely concerned for her and think it was right to offer her help. Sometimes we need a lot of wisdom what the best way is to help the women that come to us.

Thank you for staying with us and helping us in our work helping the women that are trapped in prostitution here in Pattaya. We are currently looking to rent another house as we hope and expect that more women want to leave now that there are no jobs and might be interested in our training. Thank you that through your help we can always provide safe housing for women in need in Pattaya.

 For the Tamar Family

Tamar food distribution to women in need
Tamar food distribution to women in need
one of the two babies that was born last month
one of the two babies that was born last month
Teaching session with social distancing
Teaching session with social distancing
Some women with the Tamar Food packages
Some women with the Tamar Food packages
 
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