SOS Ukraine - assistance for the disabled

by Fundacja im. Doktora Piotra Janaszka PODAJ DALEJ/ Doctor Piotr Janaszek PAY IT FORWARD Foundation
SOS Ukraine - assistance for the disabled
SOS Ukraine - assistance for the disabled
SOS Ukraine - assistance for the disabled
SOS Ukraine - assistance for the disabled
Natalia and Vladek in their room
Natalia and Vladek in their room

Dear Friends from all over the world,

We would like to wish you a Merry Christmas.
May it be full of hope, hope that everything will be fine.
We are sending our warm thoughts
to all who need comfort and feeling of being huddled.
We believe that even in the toughest moments,
In fatigue, in a rush, in sadness,
it is always possible to find flecks of happiness,
which confirm that life is beautiful.

Since the beginning of the Russo-Ukrainian war we’ve supported 53 people – those with the highest level of disability, their loved ones and one grandmother with two little grandsons (21 people with disabilities and 32 family members). Out of this group, 11 people decided to return to the Ukraine or go further west. For many of them, life has lost its meaning, while for the others it has opened up new opportunities when it comes to improving their health, work and future.

I invite you to read the story of Natalia and Vladek, who fled from Ukraine to our Foundation to save their lives.... We are also able to take care of them thanks to your help....

A view from the window to a better life

Natalia fled from Zaporozhye with her disabled son Vladek when Russia bombed Ukrainian civilians without warning. Usually the warning sirens howled, but not that day, not that time. All they heard was the missiles’ whistle cutting through the air. They wondered if any of those missiles will hit the convoy in which they were travelling to Kiev. They were lucky. And although Natalia came to Poland in the middle of the winter, wearing flip flops, and her son in a light jacket, because they ran as fast as they could, the most important thing was that they were already safe under the Konin’s sky.

Romantic Vladek
Vladek is a romantic type. The window of his room in the Konin hostel overlooks the market square in the old part of Konin. Vladek often posts photos of this view on FB with such description: peace outside the window, sun in the sky or a huge, colorful Christmas tree appeared on the square.

- I feel so at home here. Like I have always been here. I like the accessibility of the city, this is not and won’t be the case in Ukraine for a long time. Here I am free in every possible way. But I will forever remember the day when there was the heaviest bombing of Zaporizhye. It was a real nightmare. We live near the power plant and we got used to the bombing and its noise. That day the bombing raid was so strong that my bed and myself in it, literally jumped all over the place and ended on the other side of the room, although I weigh a little bit. I was paralyzed and could only do one thing: cover myself with a blanket, wait and hope the I will not fly through the wall. How I was so wrong… For the first time since the outbreak of the war, I was afraid that we will not survive another air raid – Vladek explains and his chin is shaking although he is a strong, handsome man.

Bombs falling down like stars
He did not go through the wall but the wall of neighbouring flat number 9 crumbled into dust. After that air raid they had asked Doctor Piotr Janaszek PAY IT FORWARD Foundation in Konin for help and shelter. Their journey to Poland was not an easy one. It was hard for civilians to leave Zaporizhia. Several hundred of people were waiting on the platform for a train leaving from Kyiv to Poland. No one cared that mothers with children, elderly people or those with disabilities had the priority of getting onto the train. Scuffles and arguments started. Everyone wants to get on a train of life. As if it wasn’t enough, that day the bombs were falling next to us, just like stars out of the sky…

- The glow of a S 300 projectile looks like a falling star when it hits the ground… Such projectiles were hitting us every single day. You can get used to it but when Russians start to destroy your everyday life, namely access to electricity, heating and running water, it turns into extremely hard situation – Vladek explains.

Lovebirds
They arrived in Konin in the middle of the night after long, exhausting and dangerous journey. Afterwards, they have slept continuously for 2 days.

- For me, separation with my husband was the most difficult thing, not the journey itself. I am 71 and never before have we parted with Wowka. We are like the lovebirds, always together for 50 years now. No matter if it’s shopping, name day, a simple walk or a doctor’s appointment, we’re always together. Missing my husband is worse than the war. I feel anxiety when he doesn’t answer his phone. The silence is terrifying. I prefer him getting angry and screaming – Natalia laughs. Wowa, Natalia’s husband, had to stay in the Ukraine out of a prosaic reason – he watches over their possessions.

- War turns people to enemies. My husband wanted to go with us to Poland but we were afraid for our and our son’s apartment because there are more and more break-ins, people enter apartments as if they were their own and steal everything which is terrible. We’ve worked our whole lives to get these apartments . I wish that this war was over and that we could be in our beautiful Ukraine, together, once again – Natalia says with a shaky voice.

Better times are coming
Vladek is 47 and after failed jump into the water he has been on a wheelchair for 10 years. His life was well-organized before the accident. He had a nice and beautiful wife, he worked in a furniture company and he lived in pleasant neighborhood of Zaporizhia. But most of all, he had many life plans and a lot of dreams. For example, he wanted to build a wooden house for his family, with an attic and a porch, near the forest. He even found a piece of land. However, everything has changed within a second or as Vladek says: in a glimpse of one, unfortunate jump. Vladek broke his back and he will never walk again. His beautiful and nice wife couldn’t handle the situation and she left. Vladek has a sporadic contact with his 13 year old daughter but he haven’t given up. After 2 years of tough rehabilitation he retrained himself and came back to work in the same furniture company, but now, as a designer. He loves it. He lives on his own, he’s very self-reliant and he believes that many more good things will happen in his life.

You can see they are fixing stands for the upcoming Christmas fair from the window of an apartment where he lives with his mother. Snow has fallen. It is very nippily. Natalia has swapped her flip-flops for warm winter boots. She also has a beautiful, warm coat, scarf and a woollen hat. Vladek has got a winter jacket and new, sport shoes. “Christmas view over the Freedom Square.” Vladek writes in his newest post in social media. Christmas is coming. Better Times are coming. We wish you all the best!

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The best and most valuable gift which a person can get is an another human, who gives his or her presence, mindfulness and help. With all our heart and with gratitude, we want to thank you for your existence in lives of our Charges, for mindfulness of their needs and for the help thanks to which they are starting to experience a beautiful life!
Merry Christmas!

Here you will find our short Christmas video - wishes from our Friends around the world: https://youtu.be/A12kw85uMR4

Olga and the PAY IT FORWARD Team

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Olena and Oleksiy safe in Poland
Olena and Oleksiy safe in Poland

Dear Donor,
today I want to tell you the story of a family who came to us from Zaporozhye in Ukraine at the end of October. Thank you so much for helping the refugees who come to our Foundation. Thanks to you, we are able to help them.

Every day is a lottery...
They came all together as a whole family, along with their dog Arti and cat Mars. They took with them two precious pots, family photos, a back straightening board for Oleksiy and a couple of books in Ukrainian for their 10-year-old daughter Dashka. For more than two months in Zaporozhye, Ukraine, they didn't sleep a single, entire night of constant bombing and bombing... At the Doctor Piotr Janaszek PAY IT FORWARD Foundation, they found peace, warmth and friends.
Olena decided to come to Poland after an S 300 bomb hit the apartment block opposite the block where she and her family lived. That bombing killed several people at the time, and more than a dozen were injured.

The road through hell
- I was making dinner for my family. The kitchen table on which I was preparing pielimieni (a type of Ukrainian dumplings) is opposite the window. Suddenly there was a swish, a terrible bang I don't remember much because I fell under the table. When it calmed down a bit I looked out the window and saw only the ruins at my neighbors, I could hear women crying, men screaming that someone was left under the rubble... The next day on the internet on the rehabilitation and volunteer group I asked if they would take us to Poland from this hell. The answer came the same day. In the morning we were already packed... - says Olena.
Their journey to Poland took more than three days! If it were not for the medical transport that was provided for Oleksiy, since he moves in a wheelchair, they probably would not have made it. Bombs were falling all along the way, they had to stop, wait for the worst to pass and move on. When they finally reached Konin they slept for 16 hours without a break!

Love in the neighborhood
Olena and Oleksiy were destined for each other. They grew up in the same yard. He was the one who defended her from other boys, was the first to invite her to dances, bought her a colorful blouse for the end of the school year and took her to the water on vacation. It couldn't have been any other way. They married quickly. Two years after the wedding, their first daughter Tania was born. Oleksiy had a great job and earned well, so they decided that Olena would take care of the child and the house. They lived well enough even for a family vacation. Until the day when the accident happened. Oleksiy, while on vacation with his family, jumped into the water headfirst and never came out of the water on his own again. He broke his spine and has been in a wheelchair for 22 years.
- Our world collapsed. Me with my three-year-old daughter, the whole house on my head and, on top of that, a paralyzed husband. I had all sorts of thoughts, because I thought I wouldn't be able to pull it all off on my own. - Olena recalls.
Ten years ago their second daughter, Dashka, was born. She is a pretty girl, energetic, always smiling, in love with dance and sports. She is everywhere. It is great happiness this Dashka. Just a few days ago she went to a Polish school for the first time.

Thank you for the new life
- In Ukraine, we live very modestly. For living we have 300 zloty of husband's pension and social assistance. I try to make some extra money: I cook after people, clean, work in the fields seasonally, take care of the elderly, children, but this is a drop in the ocean of needs. My husband didn't have enough rehabilitation there because we couldn't afford it, so I see him regressing. Daszka is only 10 years old so she would like to have clothes like her friends, not those of her older cousins, I understand this, but where to get money for this? Often buying medicines at the pharmacy for my husband, I wondered what kind to buy to still have enough for food. It's so humiliating. My biggest dream is to have financial stability. Not to have a lot, but just enough to cover food, bills and my husband's rehabilitation well and maybe some shooping with my daughter from time to time. - Olena dreams.
A month before the outbreak of war in Ukraine, Olena, after many courses, finally found a job. Her first job in life. She did not enjoy it for too long. The company was closed, people were fired and the dream of a better life burst like a soap bubble.

- Dear Poles! Dear Donors! We would like to thank you for your goodness, for caring, for what you do for us. Until the end of our lives we will thank God for you and pray that this good comes back to you. Over there in Ukraine, life today is like a lottery... And we here in beautiful Konin, thanks to you, we meet kind people on the streets, in the store and in the clinic. We have a roof over our heads, a family atmosphere in the hostel, a full refrigerator (Daszka eats yogurt and fruit every day), peace and quiet outside the windows. Our daughter went to school for the first time today, she dressed nicely, I braided her hair and made a cross on her forehead. Dear Friends, thanks to you we are home ... - adds Olena and a huge tear runs down her cheek. But it's not from fear or sadness. It's from happiness ...

Dashka with her cat Mars
Dashka with her cat Mars
Arti's beloved dog tired after a long journey
Arti's beloved dog tired after a long journey
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Sebastian unloads aid donations in Donetsk Ukraine
Sebastian unloads aid donations in Donetsk Ukraine


Dear Friend,

there is a lot going on in our Foundation in Poland. Below I have selected some of the activities we have recently organized for our refugees from Ukraine. I am also sending you a beautiful story of Olesia, Ivan, Dasha and Maryna, whose world collapsed twice.... We thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your help. See how we are helping refugees thanks to you. 

We now have 36 people from Ukraine under the Foundation's care, including 14 people with disabilities, and another five are on their way to us (they are fleeing Kiev).

Five children are studying in Polish schools and one is in a kindergarten. 8 able-bodied people and 5 with disabilities have found jobs. We rent 10 apartments in Konin, for which we pay rent for the first three months. Then the families become independent.

Three more families and Masha live in a hostel in the centre of Konin. Here they have their own rooms and a shared kitchen. Everything is adapted for wheelchair users. They support each other. We are waiting for two more families: a married couple (he in a wheelchair) with a daughter, a dog and a cat, and a mother with a disabled son, who are already on their way to us from Kiev. All people with disabilities benefit from comprehensive rehabilitation and assistance from our specialists.

Each family is a different story. Each is filled with the tragedy of war, sadness and uncertainty. At the PAY IT FORWARD Foundation, we give them the best possible care, they lack nothing. They just want to return home. They want the war to end....

On September 15, we invited more than 100 people - our charges from Poland and Ukraine - to a picnic. There were integration games, tasks to perform, a bonfire with sausages and singing to the sound of guitars!

On September 16, we organized a jewelry-making course for ladies from Ukraine at our Foundation. This could be a chance for them to start their own business and earn money.

We also help those left behind in Ukraine. We buy food, which is in short supply over there. On September 25, Sebastian (a volunteer) left Poland with a transport of medicine and food to people in Toreck and in Bakhmut in the Donetsk region. For security reasons, we did not contact him. He only let us know on September 30, when he crossed the Polish border. Once again, he happily returned home. Sebastian is a volunteer who goes places where no other help reaches. He goes at the risk of his life...

I invite you to read the story of Olesia, Ivan, Dasha and Maryna, whose world collapsed twice....

When you enter their small room in the refugee hostel you have the feeling of entering a house. The dog is barking, the girls are laughing, the laundry just hung up smells. In the attic with a small window overlooking Konin's old market they live: Olesia, Ivan, Dasha, Maryna and the dog Lolik.

They escaped from Ukraine in a hurry. The rush of dropping bombs, packing in a few hours, controlling the pain of a sick husband, taking trinkets for the girls, embracing the dog after all, they have a long way to go. May not forget the most necessary things: food, medicine, souvenirs. They arrived with adventures but but arrived safely. Here in Konin, under the roof of the Doctor Piotr Janaszek PAY IT FORWARD Foundation, they found peace, schools for the girls, treatment for Ivan and a comfortable bed for the dog.

An unforgettable birthday
Before Ivan's accident happened, they lived like most families. They both worked, the girls went to school, and they had their own home, so there was always something to do. They loved to travel. As soon as the opportunity arose they went out into the world. She worked as a chief accountant in a large company, he as a computer programmer. It happened that several times a year they were at the sea after all, they live in Kherson, not far from Crimea, and the sea is less than 100 km away.

Olesia is 42 years old and very, very brave. She will never forget her 40th birthday in her life. Ivan wanted to surprise her and they went to the sea. There they went on a boat cruise. Unluckily, there was an inflatable boat in the shape of a banana attached to the ship, and anyone who wanted could take a ride on it during the cruise (such an additional attraction). The family got on. It was fast and fun. At one point the banana boat suddenly turned, Ivan fell overboard hitting his head on the edge of the boat. He lost three vertebrae and would never walk again. The world collapsed for them for the first time.

- It was a nightmare. We went on vacation, joyful, happy with our own just-purchased car, and came back terrified in an ambulance with an unconscious Ivan. I thought I wouldn't survive it. It was the girls who were more optimistic than I was, and Ivan, who somehow was the least terrified by it all. Sick, weak with a terrible prognosis, but he was the one who comforted us - recalls Olesia.

February Thursday
They met at a technical school when they were 16. They didn't immediately fall in love with each other, as they are both quite shy. It was Ivan who dared, and so they have been together for 27 years, and 19 after marriage. They have two lovely daughters, 17-year-old Maryna and 10-year-old Dashka.

Maryna loves to cook and bakes delicious cakes and Daszka would like to be an English teacher. Both are beautiful, smart and very cheerful. Anyway, the whole family is like that. When Ivan found out that in the school that Dasha will attend there is the largest climbing wall in Konin he immediately grasped the topic : oh I have to sign up for classes....

In Ukraine, when they somehow managed to accept the new reality, adapt the bathroom for the disabled, make ramps to the house, turn one room into an office for remote work for Ivan one February Thursday woke them up bombing ... the world collapsed for the second time for them.

- And again I thought I would not be able to cope. Bombing night and day, and we have no basement. The shelter was far away. How will I, with Ivan in a wheelchair, escape the air raids? How and where to hide! It was a nightmare ! When we found out that there was an opportunity to go to Poland, we packed up in a few hours and set off on the road, into the unknown ... - says Olesia and her voice trembles.

Silent angels
What confidence one must have in others, in the world, in oneself to set off in a hurry into the unknown, to strange people, speaking a foreign language, to a strange place, where one does not know what awaits one, how one will be received ....

Employees and volunteers of the Doctor Piotr Janaszek Foundation are like silent angels. For the "new" who arrive at the hostel there is always someone waiting. Someone kind, warm, sensitive, attentive. Someone who prepared in advance a room with fragrant bedding, someone who logistically took care of transportation, documents, nurse, shopping. The most pleasant is the day after the arrival of the "newbies". In the hostel they all gather together at one table in the kitchen. There are conversations, good tea, salo (a kind of smoked pork fat - a Ukrainian delicacy) on wholemeal bread. It's nice, it's safe. It's family-like. The dog barks, the girls laugh ...

War devastation in the Donetsk region
War devastation in the Donetsk region
Picnic for more than 100 people!
Picnic for more than 100 people!
Jewelry-making course for ladies from Ukraine
Jewelry-making course for ladies from Ukraine
Olesia, Ivan, Dasza and Maryna in the hostel room.
Olesia, Ivan, Dasza and Maryna in the hostel room.

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Nina and Vova with Katia (form the left)
Nina and Vova with Katia (form the left)

Nina and her husband Vova fled Ukraine after two bombs hit their home and 13 fell on their land. They spent many days without light, in a cold basement that served as a shelter for them and their neighbors. They talk about the war all the time with trepidation, even though it has been going on for eight years in the region where they live. - It is impossible to get used to war," says Nina.

The story of their arrival in Poland is not at all easy. They have never traveled. Their whole life is their children, grandchildren, house and garden. A field with vegetables (everything goes into jars for winter every year), fruit trees (Nina makes great jams), a homestead with happy, free-range chickens, so their trip to Poland was a big challenge for them.
First they had to flee from falling bombs, and once they found a safe, peaceful roof over their heads in Poland, they had to move out suddenly. They are super-sympathetic, warm-hearted, hospitable people. They have been married for more than 40 years. They have never parted ways. They lived to have three children, but when asked about their family, they both start crying.

- We have three children, whom we love very much. We did not expect that in our old age my husband and I would have to leave our possessions. With us the war has actually been going on for eight years, we have already learned to live with it, although it is impossible to get used to it... When the bombs hit our house, we had to flee. We came to Poland to our daughter, who married a Pole here, has a beautiful house and we stayed with her. We were fine, we didn't hear the bombing, we didn't have to flee to the basement at night. Suddenly overnight we had to move out.... - Nina recounts crying.
Her husband sits on the edge of the neatly bedded and shakes his head every now and then saying, Nina prypyny (Nina stop).
- Over there in Ukraine "bach, bach" fell bomb after bomb, here there is no war, and still "bach, bach" other bombs fly - says Vova, his chin shakes, but not a single tear flies....

Nina is blind in one eye, and has been a homemaker all her life. Her husband worked as a train driver. Now he is in well-deserved retirement. Both of them are helped by Nina's niece Katya.
- My aunt is like a mother to me. She's a good, dear woman who has been through a lot, and I'm really glad that here in the hostel, thanks to the PAY IT FORWARD Foundation, she has found a roof over her head and peace of mind. They have really been through a lot ... - says Katya.


When asked if they need anything, they say they have everything.
- My God we have peace of mind, a roof over our heads, food, clean bedding everything we have. All my life I will pray for the people who helped us - adds Nina.
Vova a little confused suddenly adds:
- Foam shaving would be very useful I will ask, because I do not know where to buy ... - she adds quietly Vova. He can hardly be heard.

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Our Guests from Ukraine
Our Guests from Ukraine

Dear Friend!

We would like to thank you for your donation, which helps disabled Ukrainian refugees and their families receive the care they deserve and urgently need.

Today I will write to you about the children who are in our care along with their families. Sasha, Dima and Sofia suffer from spinal muscular atrophy (SMA), they are very weak, because the disease progresses quickly. We paid for the examination necessary to qualify them for the drug program in Poland. We bought them new, very light, active wheelchairs, on which they can move independently. They have physiotherapy 2 times a week, spinal massage 2 times a week, neurorehabilitation 1 time a week, swimming 1 time a week, which they love! 2 times a week they have classes with an independent living instructor who teaches them, among other things, how to move safely in their wheelchairs. Most activities take place at our Rehabilitation Center https://www.globalgiving.org/projects/rehabilitation-center-in-poland/

The parents of these children really want to work. Three of them have already started working. They do not speak Polish, so they can do simple jobs. Sasha's mother has pedagogical education and knows Polish. We will employ her in our Foundation to take care of children in the day-care center. Sofia's mom is alone with her so she can't work.

More families with disabled children are waiting in line to join us... We try to make the families who are with us more independent and as soon as places become vacant, we take in more needy ones.

We also take care for children whose parents are disabled. Milka is 7 years old, smiling and likes going to a Polish school! Nazar is 3 years old, he has lots of toys and his mom takes care of him. Nazar's dad moves in a wheelchair. He is a software tester and works for his company. Natalka, who was in the swimming section in Ukraine, will be enrolled in the swimming club in Konin! One of the girls is having a lot of trouble finding her way in a new school. Change of country, school, home, other children, other letters, another language. On top of that, there are painful memories of the war and escape... it's all very difficult... We organize psychological help so that she can go through this very difficult time more easily.

We also help children who are still in Ukraine. We have purchased food for women and children who are hiding in the convent in Jazloviec near Ternopil. Most of the children are orphans and half-orphans.  

On April 24th our guests celebrated Easter. They prepared traditional dishes. For them it was an Easter full of longing for their relatives and homeland...

Kind regards and gratitude for your help,
PAY IT FORWARD Team
 

Sofia exercises at the rehabilitation center
Sofia exercises at the rehabilitation center
Children from Jazloviec near Ternopil
Children from Jazloviec near Ternopil
Ukrainian Easter at the Foundation
Ukrainian Easter at the Foundation
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