By Team | Educate Girls
These days, 12-year old Asha* can be seen playing with her friends in the corridors of her school. However, a few months ago it seemed impossible for her to ever go back to school again.
Eldest of five children, Asha was entrusted with the job to look after all her siblings since both her parents went to work. After identifying Asha as an out-of-school girl during a field survey, Om from Educate Girls’ team went to speak to her parents to enrol her back in school. Her mother did not even entertain the idea of sending her to school and refused to discuss it further. But Om was relentless and did not give up. When he went to her house again, Asha’s mother sat him down and told him that sending girls to school was against her family’s tradition –that girls must learn how to do household chores and get married. Hearing this, Om gave examples of several girls from the village who are happily enroled in school. He also told her that education is free and the benefits it would bring are priceless. To motivate Asha into going to school, he made her speak to other school-going girls, who shared their experiences.
Little Asha made up her mind to go to school, but her mother was still not convinced. Om then decided to take help from the school headmaster and the school teacher, who happily agreed to come and speak to her mother. Asha also did not have an Aadhar Card (Government ID) and when Om volunteered to get the necessary documentation done, her parents refused. However, after constant pleas, they agreed and Asha’s Aadhar Card was made and she was enrolled in school!
However, her happiness was short-lived. Asha went to school regularly only for a month. After a week’s absence, her teacher started worrying and informed Om. When he visited her home to enquire about the situation, Asha’s mother was adamant about not letting her go to school. Om felt helpless and did not know how to react and requested the village head to help him convince Asha’s mother.
It took more than a few visits on Om and the village head’s part to convince Asha’s mother to enrol Asha in school. They spoke to her at length about the benefits of education, addressed all her concerns, and explained how delaying the necessary would only make Asha lag behind her peers. They suggested that going to school was just a matter of a few hours and Asha could help with the chores after school. Her mother finally relented and agreed to send her back to school. Since then Asha has been going to school regularly and is now in Grade 4!
Asha still helps her mother with the household chores and balances well between her studies and her duties t home. Now that she goes to school, she tells her family about nutrition, basic health and hygiene that should be maintained at home.
*Name changed to protect the identity of the minor
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