By Paula Lucas | Founder
Kili went to Asia for her cousin's wedding. She was so excited to return to the country of her roots, and to meet extended family.
When she arrived, Kili felt lovingly welcomed by dozens of relatives even though she had only met a few of them before.
Kili didn't drink alcohol but she was enjoying dancing and hanging out with the younger people at the wedding until she began to feel light headed and disoriented. Two of her male cousins offered to walk her back to her room. That is the last thing she remembers.
When she woke up the next morning she realized she had been sexually assaulted. Filled with shame and self-blame she was afraid to say anything to anyone. She suffered in silence for the next few days, telling everyone she had a migraine so she would not have to socialize until it was time to fly back home. When she got home, she contacted us.
Kili kept blaming herself, telling us how stupid she felt and that she should never have let her guard down.
We spent time explaining to Kili that it was not her fault, only that of the perpetrators. We were able to find counseling for her and encouraged her to seek medical attention as a precaution.
Kili emailed us recently and thanked us for all the support we provided her. Here is part of that email.
"I was in a dark place when I contacted you. I didn't think anyone would believe me but you did. That meant so much. I started therapy and it is helping."
We want to thank you for believing in our mission and for supporting victims like Kili!
We wish you and your loved ones joy and peace this holiday season.
Warmly,
The Pathways Team
By Paula Lucas | Founder
By Paula Lucas | Founder
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