By Daniella Ayesha | Project Leader
Deafblind can dream and make it a reality, too!
Hi, my name is John and I sign my name with the letter J. I am 27-years-old and deafblind. I can see better with my glasses and hear only loud sounds with the help of a hearing aid. I live with my family in New Delhi. My father Mr R. K. Swamy works in a government canteen, my mother Ms Annamal works in a hotel as a helper and my wife Kasturi and I run a small coffee shop together at the National Association for the Blind in Delhi.
My life was not always like this. Until a few years ago, I couldn’t even dress, bathe or even eat on my own. I didn’t even know how to sign my name. My father was very concerned about my present and our future. When I was 7-years-old, my parents enrolled me into Sense India’s deafblind program at their partner organization, the National Association for the Blind in New Delhi.
Here, the educators introduced me to the world.
They taught me daily living skills and to count. As I love to draw, my educator even found a way to teach me how to communicate through line drawing, pictures and written words using simple word signs in between. My family did not realize how this would change our lives forever.
With every new discovery my confidence grew and I wanted to learn more, understand more. I can illustrate this by an incident that occurred a couple of years ago. During a training organized by Sense India, my father and I were attended a workshop on vocational training and livelihoods. Here, all those accompanying deafblind adults were supposed to interpret the session using sign language to the deafblind adult. But my father and I sat quietly in a corner. The trainer asked my father why he wasn’t helping me understand the session he dryly replied that I know nothing and barely respond to him so it wouldn’t matter if he interpreted or not. The trainer didn’t give up. When the time came to put our dreams to paper, I began drawing out every detail line after line.
The trainer smiled and asked me to explain. I pointed to the boy in the picture and signed “John,” and to the girl in the picture, I signed “my wife.” There was another photograph below this, I pointed to it and signed, “coffee selling.” My father couldn’t believe his eyes and was teary-eyed full of joy.
Fast-forward to September 2, 2015 and I’m married! And the best part? We run a small coffee shop together, too!
My life has transformed and I am a confident person using gestures and signs to communicate. And I am filled with pride and joy when someone entrusts me with responsibilities. Because I CAN!
- Edited for John by Daniella Ayesha
Links:
By Daniella Ayesha | Project Leader - Manager
By Daniella Ayesha | Project Leader
Project reports on GlobalGiving are posted directly to globalgiving.org by Project Leaders as they are completed, generally every 3-4 months. To protect the integrity of these documents, GlobalGiving does not alter them; therefore you may find some language or formatting issues.
If you donate to this project or have donated to this project, you can receive an email when this project posts a report. You can also subscribe for reports without donating.
Support this important cause by creating a personalized fundraising page.
Start a Fundraiser