By Pamela Fernandes | Program Coordinator
Dear Donor,
The Fazendo História Institute expresses its deepest gratitude for your support of the Foster Families project. Your generosity has profoundly impacted the lives of the children we serve.
Our work plays a crucial role in the development of children aged 0 to 6 and their biological families, who are temporarily facing social vulnerabilities and have had their children removed from their care. To ensure these children receive personalized attention in a nurturing family environment, we prepare Foster Families. These families are ready to provide affection, security, and emotional support during difficult times, offering positive experiences and valuable assistance to the children in their care.
We would like to share a recent story that illustrates the importance of our work, which prioritizes family bonds, affection, and care.
Recently, we began the process of introducing Nicolas, a 2-year-old boy, to his adoptive family. During almost two years of care, Nicolas had frequent contact with his birth family (mother and father), with whom we worked on several important aspects to help them regain custody of their son. Carolina and Celso were very consistent in their visits, deeply loving, and extremely attentive to little Nicolas. Carolina knew him like the back of her hand.
These parents were very close to the technical team, and this bond allowed for essential support. Though they managed to reorganize themselves several times during Nicolas’ care, they often faced challenges that made it difficult to maintain their progress. They lived in a state of extreme social vulnerability and, unfortunately, could not establish the stability needed for us to feel confident in Nicolas' return to them, despite the deep love between him and his parents.
During this time, the foster family dedicated themselves to creating a life album for the child, documenting his entire journey. This album includes the visits with Carolina and Celso, the outings he experienced, the milestones of his development, and the joyful moments he had while in their care. With the arrival of his adoptive family, a couple of two fathers, the team also wrote a letter to Nicolas, telling him about Carolina, Celso, and his life story:
“Nicolas, if you asked me why you didn’t stay with that family, I would tell you that the world is an unfair and unequal place, where people have very different opportunities and access. Within a universe of limitations, social violence, inequality, prejudices, and moral views on substance use, your first parents did everything they could to keep you. Nicolas, how loving your mother was toward you! I know that if she could, she would put you back inside her just to leave with you once again.
I have to confess, Nicolas, that when we learned that your forever family would be composed of two men, two fathers, we on the technical team were very happy and moved. Not only because we believe in and validate the potential of male caregivers, but also because we see in you a need for such figures to be your reference. But also because we believe Carolina truly deserves the unique role of mother in your story. She was your mother with everything she had, with everything she knew, and in the best way she could for as long as she could."
Now, we are nearing the end of this chapter in little Nicolas' life, ensuring the preservation of his memories and his birth family, while also opening the door to a new story, new bonds, and a life filled with love with his new fathers!
Your continued support is essential to our mission of strengthening these families and ensuring the integral development of the children. This includes creating emotional memories and providing security while legal processes are underway.
We are deeply grateful for your ongoing support. Your generosity not only protects and supports the children, but also strengthens their biological families as they face complex challenges and situations of violence.
Warm regards,
Instituto Fazendo História team
By Pamela Fernandes | program coordinator
By Pamela Fernandes | program coordinator
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