By Norah | Nyumbani Village Resident
The life I am living today would have no meaning, in fact it could be worthless if I had no account of what I have gone through, where I came from and who I am today. What I hope to become will be greatly influenced by this account.
My life with mum,
I can only say very little about my mother because she passed away when I was in Class two. However, I do recall her voice saying to me “You have never stressed me, whenever I send you to do something you never complain.“ She used to repeat these words until some neighbors thought that I was her favorite child. Some neighbors as times asked me why my mum liked sending me and not the other children. I always answered them by saying, “she says I never waste time.”
My life in school and Nyumbani Village,
I had great expectations about my life and envisioned success in academics and life in general. I saw a bright future on the horizon. My father worked in Mombasa and supported his family to the best of his ability. He came home monthly and if for some reason he didn’t come he sent shopping and money with his colleague who came from a nearby village. I hoped to work hard in school so that I could get good marks which would encourage him to pay my secondary education. I was a bright child and my dad was always happy to reward me my good performance whenever he came.
August 13th, 2003 will forever remain a dark day because it is the day we received sad news that my father had passed away. It was a very painful experience because we did not know what to do next. My elder sister who was taking a tailoring course at the time was now the head of the family. I was in class six and two of my siblings were in primary school.
We all experienced great difficult trying to cope with life without parents and no source of support. The remaining two years of my primary school were a living hell because of biting poverty and lack of parental care. At times neighbors would drop by with baskets of food to check on us. My distant uncle at the time came to see us, but he had very little to offer because he was equally poor. As time went by my uncle and the neighbours no longer came to see us. We tried to survive by looking for manual jobs in order to get a few coins for food. My youngest brother would be left at home because he was too young to perform any job. I tried to work hard in my studies even though it was under very difficulty circumstances. Sometimes we did not have food and had to go to school on an empty stomach. When I did my class eight exams I got admission to a good Provincial school. However, since I knew we did not have money I quickly forgot about the admission letter and concentrated on getting manual jobs to earn money for food.
Through interaction with Father Julius, a priest who was stationed at Nyumbani Village, he came to learn about our plight. A social worker from Nyumbani Village came to visit and was moved by our situation. We were admitted at Nyumbani Village. Our being at Nyumbani Village was like a dream come true. I could not believe we had enough to eat, we had shoes for the first time in a very long time, attended school and we did not need to do manual jobs anymore. We were placed under the care of a grandmother, Syokau Mutisya who took care of us. I was admitted at St. Ursula Girls secondary school. I worked very hard and at the end of four years I was admitted at Amani Counselling Centre and Training College where I undertook a course in Social Work and Community Development. I chose this course because I would like to help other children that are going through difficulties. It is my way of giving back to society. I hope to start my degree course as soon as funds become available.
I am eternally grateful to all the people who fund Global Giving because your funding has made possible for people like me to have a second chance in life.
By Mercy Wangai | Assistant to Nyumbani Executive Director
By Mercy Wangai | Assistant to Nyumbani Executive Director
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