By David Donaldson | Project Leader
IS PHYSICAL ABUSE OF CHILDREN ON THE RISE?
Lately we have received several cases that involve physical abuse with children arriving with black eyes and contusions on their bodies from being beaten by one of their parents. Usually it is the father and the circumstances frequently involve alcohol or the effect of drugs.
On the whole, the Philippines is a fairly traditional culture when it comes to disciplining children and it is not uncommon to see a parent chasing after their child with a broom (silhig) or a branch taken from a nearby tree (a coathanger is another favorite item to use in this country). If a parent is not in control of their own emotions this can result in some serious injuries.
One of the problems with this approach is that the children quickly learn that violence gives you power over others and they begin to use that strategy among their peers and their first reaction during a confrontation is to use their fists against their opponent instead of resolving the conflict in a calm manner.
This aggressive behavior is clearly displayed by the children that are admitted to our center from abusive homes; they will be physically violent towards other residents and even fight their own siblings during the first few weeks. In extreme cases they will also lash out at the staff who are patiently giving them the tools they need to handle their anger more effectively and it takes time for these damaged children to learn better ways to control their emotions.
Through counselling, positive rewards and setting a good example for the children to follow, our professional team of staff can slowly change the behavior of these physically abused children and help them to become happier kids that can socially interact with other children and achieve their dreams of a better life. Your kind donations help us to literally save the lives of these vulnerable and innocent children and remove them from a dangerous situation, giving them the opportunity to be in a safe environment and loving home.
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