Enable 100 low-income girls to complete graduation

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Project Report | Sep 30, 2016
Update from Udayan Shalini Fellowship Programme

By Mohd. Faheem Khan | Assistant Director

Interchapter meet
Interchapter meet

Executive Summary

Udayan Shalini Fellowship (USF), one of the unique programmes of Udayan Care, aims to promote and support higher education for girls from disadvantaged backgrounds to help them develop them into dignified independent young women. The fellowship ensures that the lives of the girls do not succumb to monetary hardships and they do not have to give away their most cherished dream of thinking big and making a mark for themselves. However, USF is not just envisaged as a monetary assistance programme but also, as a holistic programme of sustained mentoring support and association. The growth is fostered with continued association of mentoring, motivational workshops, and development of socially responsible behavior through awareness drives. The fellowship stands different because of its pyramidal mentoring.

The three months were filled with series of activities which included Quarterly Workshop on Resume building and Interview facing. The Inter-chapter meet that was conducted focused on brainstorming on ideas to take Udayan shalini fellowship to greater heights. Fellows participated in #every8minutes campaign, a wonderful initiative by iPartner India to mark the #World Anti Trafficking Day, which culminated at Dilli Haat!. Small group workshop conducted on Assertiveness, Developed basic understanding of Assertiveness among the girls. Workshop on domestic violence helped girls in recognizing violence in its all forms.

 

Details of Progress during Reporting Period

1. INTERCHAPTER MEET

It was an opportunity for all the centers of USF to come together and welcome the new addition to the USF family, Mumbai center, to meet, interact, and brainstorm over ideas to take USF to greater heights.  The residence of Ms. Suresh Neotia ji, ex- trustee, played the perfect host for the two day meeting held on July 9th and 10th, 2016.  Demonstrating the multiple facets of the Udayan Shalini Fellowship Program, the meet was to share and learn from each other’s innovative, successful strategies and practices.

There were individual presentations by chapters focusing on their best practices and challenges. Presentation by Mr Ashish Aggrawal (core committee members) on strengthening of mentoring program, discussion on corporate social responsibility and fundraising to strengthen the program as a whole took place.

The progress of the chapters was understood and their challenges were discussed. In totality the two day meet gave ample food for thought in terms of recommendations to address the recruitment process of Shalinis, strengthen and improve the communication between chapters, discussion on report writing and format sharing on writing effective reports, creating a standard model across all chapters, strengthening of mentoring and core committee.

All in all, the ultimate goal to replicate the unique model of the programme across chapters for qualitative improvement was held supreme. Undoubtedly, the interchapter meet was one enriching platform that brought the chapters closer.

 

 2. RESUME WRITING AND INTERVIEW SKILLS WORKSHOP

 

OBJECTIVES OF THE WORKSHOP

  • To understand the framing of Resume and its purpose
  • To learn about the interview skills

 

PROCESS OF THE WORKSHOP

 

Session I

Objective: Member to member interaction

Activity: The workshop began with an activity asking girls to introduce themselves from initials of their name which gives a brief insight into their personalities. Shalinis gave exhilarated responses like ‘Rebellious Rakhi’ and ‘Dedicated Deepali’ which gave a glimpse into their capacious minds.

Session II

Objective: The Resume and its purpose

Trainers conducted exercise to figure out flaws from a CV sample and the Shalinis responded brilliantly, listing important points to be kept in mind.

Formatting tips to be kept in mind while creating a resume were given. It was followed by an exercise wherein girls were asked to come up with their purpose statements and strengths for the post of ‘firefighter’ or ‘teacher’ within five minutes and then present it before the fellows. These aspiring geniuses came up with diversified yet brilliant attributes leaving no doubt that they will triumph in life.

Session III

Objective: Interview skills

Moving forward, a humorous video was shown. It was followed by an impressive interview video. Trainers accentuated the fact that an interview is 40% about what you speak and 60% about your body language which should be positive and confident. An interview is a like a sales pitch. Key points like common interview questions, how to dress up for interviews, the behavioural etiquettes etc. were covered.

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LEARNING AND CONCLUSIVE OUTCOME:

  • It helped in career orientation and personality development of Shalinis under the USF programme.
  • It strengthened communication skills, provided tips and tricks to create effective Resume and ace interviews heading their way.
  • Remarkable responses of Shalinis demonstrated how girls with dreams today become women with vision tomorrow.
  • Shalinis became more optimistic and confident to leave no stone unturned for success in life. 

 

 3. SMALL GROUP WORKSHOP

 

OBJECTIVE OF THE WORKSHOP:

  • Develop basic understanding of Assertiveness among the girls.
  • Recognize the difference between assertive and aggressive communication through exploration of personal reactions to given situations.
  • Participate in Role Playing Exercises to practise the traits of being assertive.
  • In still in participants the courage to be assertive in the most appropriate and effective way.

 

PROCESS OF THE WORKSHOP

  • The workshop commenced by welcoming Dr Kiran Modi, founder of Udayan Care and Mrs Sanjana Swamy from Seattle.
  •  Mrs Sanjana is a founder member of Udayan Care America and is currently supporting the higher education of ten fellows under the Udayan Shalini Fellowship Programme, Delhi chapter.
  • After an exchange of pleasantries and a few words of encouragement and support from Mrs Sanjana, the facilitator proceeded to outline a plan for the workshop.
  • Firstly, the fellows were asked to enact a role play.

Situation: Two young girls are waiting to catch a local auto to their college. One such vehicle arrives at the scene. However, it is extremely crowded and there is no place to sit. Though aware of this fact, the conductor propels them to take a seat, even resorting to screaming at them.

Scene 1: The girls do not say anything and the auto drives away. The girls later feel guilty to not have responded.

Scene 2: One of the girls responds saying, “Had there been space, I wouldn’t have refused. Please take the passengers safely to their destination.”

Significance of the Activity: The fellows were asked to compare the two scenes in terms of behavior and response. Most of them were convinced that the second situation turned out to be better than the first one because it is important to stand up for one’s own respect and integrity as well as others. Also, because in the second scene the girl puts forward her point of view without any hesitation, the conductor must have realized his mistake and would think twice before acting in the same manner again.

The facilitator explained that this was what she had intended to achieve from this activity- to explain them the meaning of assertiveness and to help them understand that assertive individuals are able to get their point across without upsetting others, or becoming upset themselves.

Next, they were introduced to the SIX GOLDEN RULES OF ASSERTIVENESS-

            1. Decide what you feel or want and say it.

            2. Maintain eye contact.

            3. Do not make excuses.

           4. Do not seek approval from others.

           5. Do not get confused by the other person’s argument.

           6. Remember you have a right to change your mind.

Further, the fellows were asked to list out some of the qualities of their favourite TV show character that made them assertive. The answers ranged from King Ashoka with his ability to present his views effectively to Tamanna, a girl who moves out of a bad marriage to pursue her childhood dream of playing professional cricket.

  • Lastly, Shalinis were divided into groups of six to put up an act with relevance to our day to day lives to depict the skill of assertiveness.

Two of the seven groups presented on the theme of ragging, one on gender inequality, another two on eve teasing, one on peer pressure and the last one on reservation of seats for the elderly in public transport. It was anexhilaratingexperience for everyone present, to see such fine impromptu plays been put up by these ambitious and wonderful girls in just a matter of ten minutes.

EMPHASIS OF THE WORKSHOP

The emphasis of the workshop was to instil in fellows, Self confidence and encourage them to stand up for their own or other people’s rights in a calm and positive way, without being either aggressive, or passively accepting ‘wrong’.

CONCLUSION

WHAT OUR SHALINIS UNDERSTOOD ABOUT ASSERTIVENESS

  • Assertiveness can be learned and developed and it doesn’t happen overnight. They will slowly become more confident in expressing their needs and wants by practicing the techniques presented in the workshop.
  • As their assertiveness improves, so will their productivity and efficiency to accomplish tasks, solve problems, and reach solutions.
  • It must be noted that when people are not assertive, they can suffer a lot of problems, such as, they lose their confidence level. And indeed, having confidence to a satisfactory level is important in almost all the aspects of life to accomplish the objectives which one wants.

 

  • 4. SOCIAL CAMPAIGN ON MISSING GIRL

The fellows participated in #every8minutes campaign, a wonderful initiative of iPartner India to mark the #World Anti Trafficking Day, which culminated at Dilli Haat!  Every eight minute a girl goes missing in our country according to NCRB reports.

To mark the anti world trafficking day, the event was organized including more people in society on the grave issue of violence country is grappling with.

Both Mehrauli Udayan Ghar girls mesmerized the audience with their performance of a patriotic mélange of songs and dances, while Udayan Shalini Fellowship, Delhi alumni girls volunteered and managed the crowds there.

Our Fellows have volunteered in the stalls and in spreading the message by managing the crowed and disseminating awareness on human trafficking, girl child trafficking particularly.

Fellows unanimously said that they were glad that they could do something for the society. Also, it was not as easy as expected to handle people and their queries. This was a learning exercise wherein they acquired the skills of interacting and handling questions of the people. Mr. Faheem also quoted that even if the efforts of each one of us could prevent one girl from missing, the campaign would be worth it.  

 

 5. SMALL GROUP WORKSHOP

 

PROCESS OF THE WORKSHOP

Keeping in mind, the need of making fellows more aware on the issue of domestic violence, the facilitator conducted the workshop covering the topic of violence in its all forms; the violence can be classified into many forms.

The Workshop included group exercises among the fellows to build an understanding of domestic violence, followed by a discussion. Fellows were given few emotions and were asked to make a poster showcasing the negative repercussions of particular emotions associating the same with violence.

Thought provoking posters were made by girls, based on their own understanding of violence and where its forms all easily captured.

The facilitator touched briefly on all forms of abuse, in which Physical violence is the most recognizable form of violence .Many women experience domestic violence without ever being physically abused. Sometimes the victim is not sure whether what is happening is actually violence and suspect whether anyone will take them seriously or not. The others forms including physical, mental, and emotional and economics is not easily recognizable and understood sometimes by the victim itself.

The facilitator also talked briefly about the long maintained “Culture of Silence” on the issue as it is often associated with shame for the family and surroundings to which the victim is related to. The very cause of it lies in the socialization which further contributes to the cycle of violence; the fellows have also depicted their understanding on the cycle of violence via the posters they were asked to make part of group exercise.

The Facilitator also briefly touched the “Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act’ 2005”, she emphasized on Violence which arises because of the urge to control people, which is destructive and defies logic. When in the grip of it, one starts believing in the violence and at this point only dialogue and counseling helps.

This Act 2005, besides defining and providing for protection from violence, also provides for maintenance (alimony). Research has indicated that most women do not want to leave home as they are wary of the support. So “compromise” is not a bad word, it is used to suppress women.

This domestic violence Act 2005 can be used concurrently with other laws. An aggrieved woman can put up an application to the Magistrate prescribed under the Act and Rules. Safety of the aggrieved woman and decision of rightful disposal of the application comes within 6–9 months.

Communication is important. Protection should be to the extent of counseling and guiding the aggrieved party.

 

EMPHASIS OF THE SESSION:

v  Violence is not merely physical it has it other forms also which are not often as easily recognizable as physical violence is.

Build an understanding on the cycle of violence and how important part socialization plays in it. 

 

 

THE POWER OF SELF BELIEF

The more you believe in yourself, the more the world believes in you!” ~ Isa Zapata

Hailing from a small village Mehwa, from Dausa district in Rajasthan, Neha(name changed) was born into a very conservative family that does not believe in educating girl children.  Many families there do not even wish to bring aresume writing and interview skills workshop

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