By Eli Plenk | Program Manager
Dear Donor
We want to highlight an example of the Children Requiring Assistance (CRA) model that we piloted in 2017, thanks to your support.
Kara, had a “stubborn child” status offense. She got into trouble at school due to repeated outbursts, risky on-line communications, dating, and sexual activity. Simultaneously, her parents were embroiled in a difficult divorce. Amidst their anger, distrust and inability to communicate with each other, Kara’s parents could not support Kara, her brother and sister, or two younger step children. Each parent had Kara working with duplicate social service providers of their own choice. Yet Kara still felt isolated and alone. Neither set of social service providers could reach the core of Kara’s difficulties.
We brought Kara and her parents into an ever-evolving, gradually widening set of restorative Circle practices that included her siblings, social worker, and school personnel. OurRJ staff rebuilt a base line of trust and deeper, and more respectful dialogue within the family. In Circle, Kara shared her trauma due to her first confusing, frightening sexual encounter, and pain from being badly bullied while in a mental health facility. Speaking her truth from her heart, Kara also expressed how she felt abandoned by her parents as a result of their conflict.
Over time in Circle, Kara’s parents were able to listen to one another and to their children, and work together to figure out what was best for their daughter.
Kara’s dual social service requirements have been amended. She now receives the support she needs and has free time for her own interests.
While her mental health challenges remain, Kara now has deeper insights into them. She and her family have learned new skills to cope with challenging events. Kara knows her family and school community care about her and will assist her in recovering from trauma and transitioning into adulthood.
Thank you for your support in diverting young people from incarceration and deepening our restorative practice!
Sincerely in gratitude
Eli Plenk
Program Manager
P.S. We have exciting developments in the coming year on the expansion of our work! If you want to continue supporting restorative justice and our work, visit our website and look out for updates on Global Giving.
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