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We Are Celebrating a Big Win for Our 6-Year Old Who is Entering Grade 1 in a Regular School!
For many, it is no special feat to enter the 1st grade of elementary school. Shouldn’t all kids transition from kindergarten to elementary school. By all means, a 6 year old young girl is supposed to go to a regular elementary school, right?
It is not always the case, especially for young Taiwanese children who have difficulty obeying instructions and have intense tantrums out of the teachers' fear that the kids will be disruptive to other students and pose challenges to them. A very young child who looks very normal but seldom talks, does not follow, and has intense emotional outbursts tend to be rejected in a society that highly values social cohesion and obedience.
The Taiwan Love and Hope International Charity’s Children’s Home became Yaya’s (not real name) new home in 2021 after two failed attempts by the Taiwan Social Welfare Bureau to secure her a home with Taiwanese foster parents. Both of her real parents were drug users. She does not know her father, and her mother was in prison until 2022 for illegal substance abuse. As a toddler, she was given illegal drugs and sexually-abused. Yaya struggled with controlling her impulses and emotions. During her stay in a 2nd foster home, the child was abused by the foster father by stuffing a towel inside her mouth and was scalded with hot water, resulting in her being hospitalized and a criminal case being filed by the government against the foster family.
The Local Government Social Bureau of the county where she resided was originally going to institutionalize her in a nursing home/longterm care facility where it is allowed to give children psychotic medication. Although we are in another faraway city, luckily they received our direct marketing flyer and contacted us.
Social workers and psychologists who attended to her case diagnosed her as being mentally retarded and having an impulse control disorder because she was perceived as a problem child who was not good at speaking, screamed a lot, and easily lost control of her emotions.
For the past two years, under the care of the Taiwan Love and Hope International Charity, she went from being an infant who frequently cried intensely to a ray of sunshine. She did not talk much before, but now she is quite the chatterbug. Also, she was labeled as a slow child or mentally-retarded who loses control of emotions and was unreasonable. Now, she likes pretending to be a little princess who loves singing and dancing. She successfully finished kindergarten and will enter a regular elementary school in September. The Taiwan Love and Hope Children’s Home also decided against formally classifying Yaya as having a mental disorder so as to be issued a disabiilty card by the Taiwan Social Welfare Bureau.
We believe that love can change many things, including the seemingly impossible. It is no rocket science. Children, especially those with special needs, simply want to feel that they belong in a loving home environment. Establishing secure relationships can work wonders for children.
Ya Ya's journey began with cautious steps, she was hesitant to trust those around her. However, with patience and unwavering support, we witnessed her transformation into a blossoming flower. Through laughter and tears, we stood by her side, fostering a sense of security and belonging despite those times when she had intense tantrums.
In our care, she found a new family, where love and understanding served as the foundation for her growth. Her resilience shone through the darkest moments, proving that love could heal even the deepest wounds.
We Have Free Training Courses on Special Education and Parenting Open to the Public Starting this August!
Since March of this year, the Taiwan Love and Hope International Charity has been actively implementing the second phase of the experimental plan for families with special children and youth groups. The plan is in cooperation with Social and Family Department of the Ministry of Health and Welfare of the Kaohsiung City Government. The goal is topromote social care and support for children with special needs and strive to create a more inclusive and caring social environment, so that every child can enjoy equal opportunities. In accomplishing this, advocacy and training are important so that we can reach more Taiwanese and help them understand their stereotypes and stigmas of children with special needs, particularly among those with neurodevelopmental disorders. We need more parents especially among those in the lower social and income classes in Taiwan to understand that children with atypical behaviors do not need harsh physical punishment in order to correct their behaviors. By working with the government, we want to ensure that children and teenagers with special needs grow up in a safe, supportive, and loving environment. Through individualized services, we put their needs first, help them overcome difficulties, develop their potential, and let them gain more opportunities and hopes. We want more parents to become empowered in becoming better persons for their children who are neurodivergent.
We have realized that the children we care for possibly experienced severe physical abuse and eventually neglected or abandoned their children because they lacked the training and preparedness to care for their neurodivergent child. They opted to resort to physical abuse because they were unaware of the available services and interventions that can be provided to their child whom they thought was just misbehaving and could be changed through physical, emotional, and verbal punishment.
Although the focus of the Taiwan Love and Hope International Charity is to care for children with special needs, we are thankful for the opportunity to finally work with the government in promoting our advocacy and in being an example of how authentic love and care can have a transformative effect in helping children who were formerly institutionalized in other orphanages or were abandoned by family.
Thank You Very Much Riot Games and GlobalGiving for Your Generous Support!
The Taiwan Love and Hope International Charty received a funding grant of US$10,000 from Riot Games through GlobaGiving. The support was really timely as we carry out training programs for parents and children with special needs. We really need to reach out to as many Taiwanese in the lower social and income classes in promoting and protecting the rights of neurodivergent children.
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The Taiwan Love and Hope Children's Home is indeed transitioning and evolving into a different organizational and legal model. Currently, the organization's license to operate is similar to a traditional orphanage wherein there are no specified limits to the number of children that we are able to take in.
Although we share the same legal and organizational status as most traditional orphanages in Taiwan, we made it our mission to care only for children with very special needs that result from the severity of their neurodevelopmental disorder. Traditionally in Taiwan, these chldren are turned away by almost all orphanages because of the demands they place on manpower and the associated costs for psychotherapy and other interventions. It is well-known that housing abandoned children with severe disabilities in longterm care facilities such as nursing homes, hospices, and longterm care hospitals is the usual practice. Psychopharmacological interventions are the most cost-effective approaches relied on since in any case, the children no longer have family willing to advocate for them.
We aim to provide an alternative!
We have kept the number of children staying in our children's home to around 6-8 after realizing that their special needs are best addressed when the interaction between the caregivers and children is more personalized instead of being routinary and professional. It has also made it more realistic and authentic to bring the chldren out to family trips, family meals, and other activities as part of our own family group dynamics wherein they get to interact and have a sense of belonging to a family wherein they regard me as their dad, my wife as their mom, my daughters as their sisters, and our relatives as their own famly. We believe in an organizational culture and group dynamics which can provide for the corrective recapitulation of what the children were deprived of by their own families and the social welfare system.
Our mental health and psychosocial support approach has resulted to many health gains among the children we care for. This prompted Taiwan's Social Bureau to ask us to consider an experimental initiative that the government wants to try out which is called a Group Home. It is an attempt to integrate the ideals of the foster family approach but implemented by a private organization running group homes instead of a willing family who is part of the government's foster care system.
The Taiwan Love and Hope International Charity will be the first organization to officially carry out this approach in Taiwan specifically for abandoned children with special needs who have been given up by several foster families and are likely candidates to be placed in longterm care nursing homes or hospitals.
The organization recently successfully passed an evaluation of its programs and operations by government and academe-affiliated evaluators. By next month, a new legal license to operate will be released. It looks like a transition to a new organizational identity. It nonetheless espouses the core mission and vision of the organization.
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The Taiwan Love and Hope International Charity recently held its First Clinical Case Conference, which was attended by psychologists, a psychiatrist, social workers, teachers, and government representatives. The goal of the conference was to have a multidisciplinary discussion about one of the children with level 3 severe autism spectrum disorder who is living at the Children's Home. Dr. Tiangco is pushing for the further professionalization of caregivers, social workers, and other staff of the organization who are in contact with the child. Through the conference, ideas were exchanged in how to best approach the caregiving process in order to reduce the boy's self-injurious behaviors. It is hoped that evidence-based approaches are applied in helping the children so that they can achieve their full potential.
The Taiwan Love and Hope International Charity is committed not only to loving the children but to leveraging best practices and approaches in providing them a family-oriented and loving experience. We also want to promote a culture of professional excellence as healthcare providers to vulnerable children.
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The children, staff members, and including myself have all fallen ill because of COVID. We are still thankful that no one experienced any severe symptoms. The worse that happened was when 2 of our children with severe cerebral palsy had to be hospitalized for around 9 days. Other than this, everyone else was able to fully recover at home within a week.
Instead, the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic has strained the resources of the organization. There was a significant drop in overall charitable giving among individual donors, and we attribute it to the financial impact of the pandemic. We realized that we could not rely on individual donors and supporters who have been the financial backbone of the organization.
The team made an effort to partner with various business associations and support their activities as they support us. We partnered with various Rotary Club chapters, Lion's Club in Kaohsiung, and other associations and organizations ranging in different organizational sizes.
We are thankful for the partnerships and the opportunity to collaborate on event projects because without them, we are unsure how the organization would have survived the financial cost of paying the salaries of qualified caregivers, social workers, and administrative staff members.
Through the partnerships, we were able to organize 2 majors events and some other smaller activities.
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The Taiwan Love and Hope International Charity originally hoped to concentrate on helping abandoned Taiwanese children with cerebral palsy who are institutionalized in long-term residential nursing homes. We started the startup Children's Home because of two children who were survivors of physical abuse but were unfortunately institutionalized in a nursing home because of the cerebral palsy that resulted from the abuse. They were the inspiration for this endeavor. The tragic reality is that such children whose family no longer advocates for them because either or both parents are in prison and their relatives do not want the burden of taking care of them, end up neglected or even experience repeated abuse at the hands of residents in elderly nursing homes.
The past months have shown us that a similar plight is experienced by abandoned children with other neurodevelopmental disorders and disabilities. The Taiwan Social Welfare Bureau has asked us to provide care for 2 children with severe autism, an infant with a severe physical disability, and 2 children with intellectual disability, one of which has severe emotional outbursts. All of the children came from a background of parental neglect and abuse. Most of them have moved from one foster family to another but without any success in finding a family willing to accept them. They were about to be institutionalized in a long-term elderly nursing home when the Social Workers handling their cases heard about us.
Our startup organization is really small in terms of staff and finances. The Taiwan Love and Hope International Charity's Children's Home is generally perceived as an unstable organization because of our lack of financial resources. We are directly competing with long-term elderly care facilities that are keenly interested in the children as well because of the US$ 835.35 stipend provided by Taiwan's Social Welfare Bureau for each child institutionalized. Residential nursing homes accommodate as many as 50-300 residents. It was in this kind of system that we witnessed the unfortunate plight of the children with cerebral palsy whom we are taking care of right now. We soon learned that nursing homes heavily depend on drug therapy for children with other neurodevelopmental disorders and disabilities to keep their emotions under control. It also means that the children are in dazed states or are drowsy.
We will be making changes to some of the information about our project description. We are truly happy to announce that we are no longer limited to helping children with cerebral palsy. We welcome children with Autism, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), Intellectual Disability, Physical Disability, etc. We welcome any child who needs a loving family to help them achieve their full potential. Our Children's Home is not a dormitory or warehouse. We are committed to being their loving family, and advocating for their special needs.
We also want to report to everyone that we have received certification for Environmental, Social, and Corporate Governance (ESG) and Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR). With your support, we aim to get more certifications that attest to our professionalism.
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