Arts Therapy Clinic-Children in Crisis-CAMBODIA

by The Ragamuffin Project
Arts Therapy Clinic-Children in Crisis-CAMBODIA
Arts Therapy Clinic-Children in Crisis-CAMBODIA
Arts Therapy Clinic-Children in Crisis-CAMBODIA
Arts Therapy Clinic-Children in Crisis-CAMBODIA
Arts Therapy Clinic-Children in Crisis-CAMBODIA
Arts Therapy Clinic-Children in Crisis-CAMBODIA
Arts Therapy Clinic-Children in Crisis-CAMBODIA
Arts Therapy Clinic-Children in Crisis-CAMBODIA
Arts Therapy Clinic-Children in Crisis-CAMBODIA
Arts Therapy Clinic-Children in Crisis-CAMBODIA
Arts Therapy Clinic-Children in Crisis-CAMBODIA
Arts Therapy Clinic-Children in Crisis-CAMBODIA
Arts Therapy Clinic-Children in Crisis-CAMBODIA
Arts Therapy Clinic-Children in Crisis-CAMBODIA
Arts Therapy Clinic-Children in Crisis-CAMBODIA
Arts Therapy Clinic-Children in Crisis-CAMBODIA

Project Report | Dec 1, 2015
Who Wins - Conflict Mediation Arts Therapy

By Carrie Herbert & Kit Loring | Directors of Arts Therapy Services @ Ragamuffin.

Who Wins? Conflict Mediation & Arts Therapy
Who Wins? Conflict Mediation & Arts Therapy

‘WHO WINS Creative Arts Therapy and its Application to Conflict Mediation is a Ragamuffin training programme for counsellors, social workers and educators who work with children adolescents and families in conflict in Cambodia.

Why do we argue and fight? Why do we attack and blame each other? Whether it be in the kitchen, at home or on the world stage. Is winning all that really matters to us? And if we win... what have we also lost in the process? There are never any winners whilst there is conflict - there is only pain.

What lies behind conflict? What needs unmet? What wound unattended? What pain unseen? What injustice ignored?

In this workshop, we used applied Creative Arts Therapy techniques, and experienced the battle ground from both sides. Our task: to make peace. A peace that makes reconciliation a reality. A peace whose hallmarks are the priceless qualities of love, humility, grace and forgiveness. Is this not worth more than inflicting further pain?

Most of us will of course agree. And most of us are in conflict with someone or something somewhere. This workshop was for everyone in conflict, and for the peacemakers.

Participants attending were all professionals working in the fields of counselling and therapy, social work, education and development with populations experiening domestic violence, abuse, trafficking and complex behavioural issues.

It was a powerful process to engage and equip those responsible for the care of those in conflict and crisis. We began by creating a mandala peace garden, creating and exchanging gifts of peace for each other. A social worker shared how this inspired him to realise the interconnectedness of peacemaking - “If I am not at peace you cannot be at peace.” We began to explore how the ambiance in and around oneself can create an atmosphere of peace and the potential for reconciliation.

“This is a whole new experience, the creative exploration is bringing us closer together, as we gave each other symbol of peace we were practicing peacemaking, doing it together, we can make it so”. “Giving a gift of peace meant so much as I saw how the peace of one creates peace for another" (participants).

Peace bridges.

“Conflict is like a virus – the need for power for example, can become a disease an outbreak. People need help at such times … some conflicts are very quiet, like a silence, some conflicts people can cry for help. “Suffering and conflict affects so many people.” “The world is full of conflict and our worlds are full of conflicts here in Cambodia” (participants).

It starts with me

“Peace and reconciliation is on my mind a lot, it makes me feel so emotional, I have such deep feelings and now I am asking myself could I be the person who helps to end this conflict rather than contribute to it?” (Cambodian therapist)

“I have a wish that I really want to bring peace and not add to the conflict. Those who embody peace are the antidote to violence – they do not engage in violent acts they engage in acts of peace – and do not react to threat or attack save with love" (Cambodian Social Worker).

To be a peacemaker we must be at peace within ourselves first, to have identified our own schemas, to mediate our own wounds and recognize our propensity to act those out and so impact others (wounds wound). To become reconciled to those things that have hurt us, those things we avoid within that have held power over us, so as to be empowered to be peace in the storm, so that we will not avoid, nor shy away from conflict but neither will we contribute to it, we will be peace in the storm not because of fear but because of love and self-empowerment, we will diffuse it and exemplify the qualities of peace.

Compassion can mean co-suffering. When we hurt another we hurt ourselves, everything and everyone’s connected all part of a whole interactive dynamic.

Through psychodrama and mediation techniques the group were introduced to and given opportunity to learn to practice the art of conflict mediation.

From dealing with everyday conflicts with young people to looking at domestic violence and complex inner conflicts the group were more equipped to discover the complexity of a mediation process in action and how to apply this into their own lives and work.

 “Everyone needs to go on this training – it is training for life – we all need to learn how to do this, we can all contribute to making peace”

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Location: Phnom Penh, NA - Cambodia
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