By Maritoni Saberon | Project Leader
Marriage is regarded as a moment of celebration but when teenagers are involved, it gives no such cause for merriment as their childhood is cut short and their fundamental rights are compromised.
In a tribal community where fixed marriage is widely practiced, then 17-year old Geneva got married with hope that her life would be better. Far from a blissful life, however, she lamented that life is so difficult especially now that she has two children.
Both Geneva and her husband are farmers. She plants corn and harvests once in three months. James, on the other hand, plants root crops. Their total family income is roughly P185 or around $4 dollars a day which is spent to pay debts and to buy food for the family. When the budget is very limited though, she admits to just going to sleep without having a meal. She just gives her children water to drink to ward off hunger.
When her youngest child was sick with pneumonia, she borrowed money from neighbors to buy her medicines and to pay other expenses in the hospital. Geneva just makes use of herbal plants when the budget is low.
Geneva is so grateful for the help that we extended to her family and other indigenous people through the supplemental feeding program.
“Nagpasalamat ko kay mangita jud ug pamaagi ang Ginoo biskan sa mga ginagmay naa jud mutabang sa amoa. Labi na sa inyo, salamat nga nakaambit mi sa inyong feeding program na inyong ginapahigayun diri. Salamat sa mga school supplies pud kay nahatagan pud ang akong anak. (I am so thankful that God always finds ways that even in little things, there is always somebody who helps us. Thank you that we are able to benefit from your feeding program. Thank you for the school supplies that you provided for our kids.).”
Having been deprived of higher education due to early marriage and poverty, Geneva has built her hope on her children that they would finish college. She wants her daughter to be a teacher, something she wanted for herself before but was never given the chance because of the circumstances in her life. “Mao ako gina supportahan akong anak. Pag uli gikan sa eskwela ako jud na siya gina tudluan pag abot sa balay. Kampante ko kay kabalo ko na basta naa sila sa eskwelahan naa silay pagkaon og maka eskwela sila og tarung. (That is why I give my full support to my children. When they arrive from school, I help them with their homework. I am at peace when they are in school because I know that they have food to eat and they can study well.)”
“Salamat kaayo. Kung wala mo dili mi makatilaw ug ang ang among mga anak ug lamian na pagkaon. Wala mi ninyo nakalimtan, mao excited me perme kung naga anhi mo diri sa amua og nagapangumusta. Tana dili mu ma pul-an ug tabang ug kami maningkamot. (Thank you so much. If you were not here, we could have never tasted delicious food. You have always remembered us that is why we are always excited every time you come here to see how we are doing. I hope that you will not grow tired in giving us your support and we will strive harder to succeed.)”
Geneva may have missed the things that she could have enjoyed in her youth but optimism fuels her to just go forward and believe that the future is bright for her children.
By Mine Tantoy | Project Leader
By Riene L. Tagupa | Project Leader
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