By Ashley | Young Woman Advocating for Change
Using a social justice framework for our work means we’re dedicated to ensuring that those impacted by policies and practices have the opportunity to advocate on their own behalf. Moreover, it is essential that everyone learn about how trauma and violence impact the lives of girls and young women in this country and at Crittenton we believe that there are no better teachers than young women survivors of violence. To this end, we provide opportunities for youth to develop leadership skills so that that young women can speak their own truths.
Below is a story of one of many courageous young women who advocate for change:
Times have been hard for me. My father began molesting me before I was four and it went on for eight years. I didn’t know my mom till I was 11 and even then she was strung out on meth. I started doing drugs at 12, and drinking with my dad even younger than that. I needed to escape. Soon enough I was an addict and I got into a fight that resulted in assault charges.
It is difficult to admit but I became so depressed that I tried to commit suicide on many occasions. I was in a very dark place. I had been in several residential programs and in psychiatric care. I had to turn my life around. I knew what I needed to do but I needed a push. I found treatment and counseling—and a home–at the White Shield Center in Portland, Oregon.
Now I’m 18 years old and clean and sober. I have learned about positive relationships and I am rebuilding a relationship with my mother after many years of not having her in my life.
My father went to prison for what he did. Sometimes I wonder where my life would have been without treatment. I have people outside of family if I need support, help or clear perspective. I like the White Shield Center and the structure it provides helps me so I stay on track. No one wants to be in a program like this at first, but when you accomplish your goals and look back on it you can see what a big difference it makes. Now as I’m about to graduate, go to college and get a place of my own I see how it has changed my life.
“I choose to share my story and be a national advocate for girls because I want to make an impact on other girls’ lives. Through ‘We Are Not Invisible’ I share my life experiences and talk about the program and services I’ve been involved in with legislatures, policy makers, key stakeholders and other girls and young women. When I speak, I hope that they are motivated to do something that really support girls and young women who have experienced similar things as I have. And if what I say helps another young women in the audience, then I’m very happy with that…even if I don’t know that it has.” – Ashley
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