YuXia was 16 months old when she traveled to Beijing to be admitted to the China Care Home. She is an active girl with big, bright eyes, who was born with unilateral cleft lip and palate. When she arrived, YuXia needed someone to hold her hands to help her walk. After she was taken to the floor mat, she would crawl around and look for toys to play with. If she felt bored, she would throw the toys away and move to her nanny. She would then pull on her nanny’s clothes and climb onto her nanny’s legs until her nanny swept her up in her arms.
Because YuXia’s age and health condition met the medical criteria, she was sent to the hospital one week after her arrival for the first of two surgeries. YuXia’s nanny also went to hospital to take care of her. After YuXia was released from the hospital, she came back to the China Care Home to recuperate. Most children return their institutions between surgeries, but because YuXia had to travel so far, she stayed and waited for the next surgery at the China Care Home.
During those six months, YuXia recovered well and soon could walk by herself. Whenever she heard her nickname, “DaXia,” she would turn and look around. When she saw her nanny, she would walk towards her, throw herself into her nanny’s arms or when her nanny squatted down, put her hands on her shoulders. Though she did not speak, her eyes and her actions smiled and talked. If she didn’t know the nanny, she would hide behind her nanny and look shy. Sometimes she could follow her nanny’s instructions to wave goodbye to others.
YuXia walked faster and more steadily as time went by. She was also enrolled in the China Care Home’s preschool program and had regular classes with the teacher and other toddlers. When the teacher took the children out to the playground, YuXia would run outside happily and play on the swing or the slide. She always had a good time and was always reluctant to go back to the nursery room when it was time to go back inside. Sometimes when she was in the room, she would sneak off to the corridor when she realized her nanny wasn’t paying attention to her. Then her nanny would discover her and chase after her. YuXia would continue to run in the corridor, giggle and look back until she was caught by her nanny. Afterwards, they would go back into the room for activities like playing with jigsaw puzzles, ball games and reading picture books.
YuXia had her second cleft palate surgery at the end of last year. She spent another month at the China Care Home for post-op care until she was fully recovered. Though YuXia was almost two years old, she could only say a few words like “mama,” “auntie,” “ok,” and “bye.” Her nannies and teacher instructed her to talk every day. If the word was complicated for her to pronounce, she would just look at them and keep silent. But we could read from her facial expressions that she understood a lot. What she had in her mind was much more than what she could express in words. YuXia also helped her nanny do things she was capable of, such as dumping trash, fetching diapers, sorting out toys, etc.
During her time here, YuXia got used to the life and people at the China Care Home and our staff here got to know her well. YuXia was sent back to the institution at the beginning of this year. YuXia is such a happy and sweet little girl and we all look forward to the day when she can have a forever family.