Thank you for being with us and keeping our project running for one more year. Your support and generosity help our long-term programme “My tomorrow” to build and develop the lives of young people, graduates from children’s homes in St. Petersburg.
Our programme for young people is a special one. How long does it take you to grow a beautiful plant from a seed? How much of your time and efforts do you spend, thinking that tomorrow you will see a great result of your work?
“My tomorrow” is such a project – it helps teenagers and young people without family support and very little life experience to step into life, to grow and develop their personalities and find their place in society.
This year the project offered support up to 30 teenagers and young people: 40 % of whom had no contact with their families or relatives. All of our young people-beneficiaries find it extremely difficult to deal with day-to-day planning and feel insecure about adapting to society – they receive very limited knowledge of life skills in orphanages and children’s homes. Now young graduates, some living in hostels, some sharing flats with siblings or distant relatives, struggle to identify their future path.
Over the last several years, Sunflower Centre has offered intensive courses of counselling, individual and group sessions and training with social service specialists and physiologists for teenagers and young people from very different backgrounds: 13 % in work, 13% - receiving higher education in institutes/universities, 46% - on vocational training and about 26% undecided or hesitant about their future study/work.
One of the most essential tasks of this training was to motivate and teach young people to deal with everyday life. Training sessions included talks and practical advice on how to communicate, to feel secure and self-motivated, how to stay positive and learn to communicate, and offered practical guidance on life and domestic skills. Other project activities included creative workshops, organising events, while for the summer period the project will offer hiking and other outdoor activities.
Our excellent team of Sunflower specialists (teachers, physiologists, social service workers, tutors) help young people to overcome inertia and motivate them to find a suitable job after graduating from colleges or receiving vocational training. The majority of young people had a negative experience or lack of interest in their jobs as usually their profession was chosen for them (but rather by staff of orphanages/children’s homes). At the same time the young people get confused and feel insecure about possible changes – as a result of the experience they have been received in orphanages and children’s homes – with the main idea not to move on with their lives. One of the girls, Katya speaks to us:
"Irealised that I am bored here and my job isannoying(Katia works as a cleanerin the orphanage, whereshewas apupil), but in contrast to a new job everyone in the orphanage shows thatthey worry and pity for me, are interested to hear about my life, andalso tryto pay betterwages, not like everywhere.”
This is a common position for many of our young people. They are afraid to know the world around them and prefer to “play safe” and return to familiar surroundings, even if they are capable for much more.
Our project offers and helps young people to recognise their personality and to celebrate their differences. One of our teenagers, Taras, who was a very reserved and emotionally closed young man, has shared with us how he feels now: “I feel relaxed at our training and feel good and positive about myself, when I talk to our tutor”
Our young people say the project helps them to be realistic and sincere about themselves. Thus, Semen, who has found a job, couldn’t cope with the work at the beginning and blamed the company, colleagues, and friends for his failure. As a result, he left work later on, unable to comply with all the conditions. He was offended by friends who told him that it was his fault that he could not hold a job. Semen decided to get help from Sunflower and visited our training and got individual help from our tutors. Two months later he successfully applied for the same job, where he works until now.
This January one of our orphanage-leavers, now mother of three, Galina, has started to work as a tutor at a group session for teenagers. Her tutor’s advice, personal experience and similar start as a graduate from the orphanage are highly appreciated by her students and we congratulate Sunflower and its excellent team with the results they have achieved this year.
You are important as you really are – say all our young people to each other in Sunflower Centre. We hope that your support will mean this great work can continue in the future.