"There are no services for me here?" These were the words she would have cried out, if she had known enough English. "Here is the name of a doctor in San Diego. They have many more services there" , the doctor continued.
The young Sudanese lady was in her early twenties, and she was eager to learn and to become part of the community, but she was too old for high school and would need considerable help with learning skills. In her country of birth, she would have been kept secretly at home, and it seemed that she had met an insurmountable barrier to escaping from a similar fate in her new home. But her mother was determined to give her daughter every chance of learning and developing her skills, and was eventually able to earn enough to pay their fares to San Diego.
Now mother and daughter needed to build a new life, but with no support system. That is why they were referred to our organization. They had to have both transportation and translation to be able to visit the 5 locations involved in having the daughter approved for assistance. There were multiple visits, fees to be paid and many forms to execute. Without our outreach worker, there was no way they could navigate the system. It took 4 weeks to complete the application process and another long wait for approval, but what a joy to see someone reaching her goal. What an inspiration the mother was in being willing to step out into the unknown in order to give her daughter a chance.
Barely a week later a young Karen woman in her twenties and with similar learning challenges, arrived directly to San Diego. Our Karen-speaking outreach worker set about guiding her through the same maze of offices and provided the translation, transport and encouragement that brought opportunities for the daughter and satisfaction to her family members.
Your help in providing funds to support services like these brings about miracles, not only for the individuals but for the communities in which they live. Because so many of our clients come directly from war torn countries, you create transformations that provide hope and orientation to a future in which each can contribute. That is awesome!
Please remember to tell your friends and relatives about The Refugee Network of San Diego, now commonly referred to as "RefugeeNet". We would like your friends to be our friends.
We are thrilled to be able to report that our project, "Bridge to Self-Reliance, 2000 refugees in San Diego, CA." has been chosen as Global Giving's Project of the Month for January, 2015. It is a great honor to be recognized in this way, for our work with refugees, with needs both basic and complex. This could not have happened without your help in bringing us into the lime-light. You showed you believed in the value of what we were doing, by your spectacular support in two end of year campaigns. That was tremendous.
In November and December we received 10 new families from Southern Sudan, Bhutan, Myanmar and Darfur. Half of those families are large, so our stock of donated blankets, sheets, large cooking pots and school clothes flew off the shelves. More have been requested, and continue to arrive.
At our Board retreat in early February, what a boost of energy we will receive from the funding that the Project of the Month Club raises for us in January in addition to the over $4,000 you provided in end-of-year donations. These two sources will make it possible for us to plan to serve many more this year, who need a hand-up and encouragement. What a wonderful way to start a New Year!
Each year the Board of Directors of the Episcopal Refugee Network of San Diego reviews what objectives we have met in the previous year, and what we have achieved. Our most urgent need in the past two years has been to raise the funds to employ two more refugee workers who speak one or more of the languages of the most recent arrivals.
The need for the services we provide has continued to increase, but our fundraising methods have not changed as much as we had planned. We set out to remedy that two years ago, and signed up for our first bonus day effort being run by Global Giving. We advised our donors well in advance and stirred up support, including arranging for three particular donors to be ready to donate at the earliest time possible. We arranged for our website to carry the information about how to donate via Global Giving, by sending very specific information to our web master, and we had in place a telephone list to urge our supporters on.
Imagine our puzzlement when no donations early in the process appeared. Then we received a message from our accountant to say thay we had received several donations from our home web page. We checked and found a small error, which was intended to help donors, but which rerouted them. By this time it was well after mid-day and we had lost the very impetus we thought we had planned for so carefully.
Why hadn't we checked our web site well in advance of the day? We had lost sight of one very small detail, because we did not think of it. We had, on previous occasions when we were using an unfamiliar process, made sure that the system worked, by havinging one of us donate first, in case of surprises. We now know that every little piece of preparation needs to be checked off and tested, and a list for that purpose now has much more on it that we just might forget!
As we are a very largely volunteer organization, and rely entirely on donations and grants, we appreciate our being a partner with Global Giving, and value the generosity of you, our donors. Please tell us what you like about our reports and what you would like to know about, that you have not seen in them. We will not be participating in the upcoming bonus day, but please look for us in the end of year giving, in December.
Last month, two refugee families each asked for beds. They did not know each other, for each had lived in a different area of San Diego County for the past five or six years.
Among those refugees who have lived in camps for many years before being brought to the United States, sleeping in a bed is often seen more as a danger than as a necessity,or a luxury; and sheets are not envisaged as a normal additions to a blanket on a bare mattress on the floor. For these refugees, sheets and pillow cases are among the first new items that become "normal", but they also present difficulties, because they cannot be washed and dried conveniently, indoors. There are rules at almost all apartment complexes that washing cannot be dried outside. Most low-income apartment buildings do not have laundry facilities, and even those that do, have machines that eat large numbers of quarters before sheets can return to the bed.
We also discovered that since a white sheet for covering a dead body IS something familiar for them, some of the refugees ask for colored sheets only, to sleep between.
So when a family that has been here for five or six years asks for beds, that is a reason to rejoice and to scurry round and find them. Their request represents a resurgence of hope - a recognition that by working more than one job, or having several members holding jobs, a family does have the means to become self-sufficient. With a down payment saved, they can move into a larger apartment, where there is room for beds. Then they can see themselves as capable of saving for items that will make their life more comfortable, and a future where each family member can be successful. Beds, a more comfortable couch, perhaps matching sheets and pillow cases - these are small signs that these families have truly begun the climb upwards towards self-sufficiency.
Your interest in the work of the Episcopal Refugee Network, and your donations, have made it possible for our staff to be there for these families, to recognize and nurture these early steps. With your help, every family that is able to see itself as beginning to succeed becomes a beacon to many other families. Two families asked for beds in September. Can we make that 6 families in October?
He was struggling to urge his wheelchair across the room to a spot where he could join an informational meeting for Karen refugees arranged by the Network. That was what caught the eye of one of our staff members. He spoke with sadness of the day when he was forced to walk ahead of soldiers, who were clearing land mines near his home village, and lost his legs when he stepped on one. He shared his feelings of depression at not being able to get out and about, as he could not get his wheelchair to move with ease. A ray of hope flashed for a moment in his eyes, as a staff member promised to get him a wheelchair that worked, and flared to excitement when we delivered it to him two days later.
The next time we saw him he was with a group of Karen refugees at a special forum at the University of San Diego, sitting in his wheelchair, wearing his colorful festive Karen sarong and headband, and chatting animatedly with other people gathered there.
When staff or volunteers meet families in their homes, or arrive with a load of food at an apartment complex, they also have opportunities to talk with refugees about needs they have no way of addressing. In many cases the families are unaware that solutions to their problems can be found. The young man in today's photo has just received a letter which he needs help reading and responding to. He is about to hand it to a staff member, who will talk to him about its contents and arrange for any appointments it says are necessary, as well as making sure that any access problems are identified and corrected. There is no elevator in that appartment building, and the sidewalk does not look very smooth!
It is at times like these that we also hear about other members of a refugee's extended family, or a friend, perhaps living somewhere else in San Diego county, about whom the speaker is concerned. Problems big and small that we solve together, change from stumbling blocks to stepping stones. The transformations, especially from depression at what seems unsurmountable, to elation at having found ways of dealing with a situation, are very exciting.
A big "Thanks!" is due to all of you who donate to our project. You are the catalysts in a process that truly lifts spirits and changes lives.
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