This story is of a Sheltering Arms father and his dedication to his only son to find a better life for his family...
This father was living in a shelter with his three year old when he happened to pass the Sheltering Arms Educare facility while seeking employment. He came inside to inquire about childcare and to share that he had recently relocated from baltimore and had just been hired but was in need of childcare for his son. He enrolled his son that same day and was told about Sheltering Arms' fatherhood program. Even thought this father served prison time, Sheltering Arms was able to assist him with obtaining an apartment and rewferring him to the Center for Working Families where he was able to recieve additional resources. Now, he volunteers in the center when he is not workign and attends Sheltering Arms Parent group meetings as well as community meetings to encourage other parents about the importance of parents being active in their child's school and community. He has obtained three jobs since his son started school. One of his job titles is a group leader at a group home. His story has touched so many; he will soon be featured in Ebony Magazine due to Sheltering Arms' philanthropic partner, The Annie E. Casey Foundation.
With your help, Sheltering Arms is helping to make this family's dream and the dreams of thousands of other families a reality. Nearly 90% of our children are from low-income working families. Your support provides tuition scholarships so that parents can afford the quality care and education their little ones need and deserve. And you can be assured that your gift is invested in an efficient, effective program:
• 92¢ of every dollar donated to Sheltering Arms goes to children and families• 96% is the average score of Sheltering Arms children on developmental assessments• $1 invested in quality early education returns up to $17 to the community in savings on incarceration, remediation, and public assistance
We are so grateful for all of the friends like you who have helped our children and families accomplish great things. We look forward to positively impacting generations of families with quality child care and early learning for years to come. Thank you!
Sheltering Arms Staff and Families
“Sheltering Arms is a part of my family, the teaching staff and the management staff at the International Village Center has helped create a strong educational beginning for my two boys.”
Growing up in Cuba surrounded by parents who believed in a strong educational upbringing was how Fredi was raised. “My parents believed that an education was the backbone of a strong start for all of us as we grew up.” Fredi learned at an early age the importance of school from his parents and how they viewed education as an essential stepping stone for success. Fredi also knew how his parents played a role in his day-to- day schooling by volunteering and being at the school as involved parents. The foundation of education was instilled early and often in his childhood, and now he gets to carry the legacy his parents instilled in him.
Fredi grew up in Miami and eventually moved to Atlanta in 1988. Education was still an integral component of his life as he worked hard and began to establish his family. Out of all his major accomplishments, two stand out the most; Taylor and Jake! Fredi knew the importance of education and how he wanted to build a foundation for his children to learn early and often. He was at a loss of where to start. Although his in-laws played an important role in helping with the care of Taylor and Jake at an early age, he also knew that the boys needed to be in a structured environment to help build social skills.
Fredi had a chance encounter with a friend to learn about the early childhood development facility called the International Village Center. His friends raved about the care and educational setting that their children experienced on a daily basis. Fredi and his wife Luzmita knew that they had to experience the center themselves and made a trip to the facility.
Fredi knew immediately that from the reception and warmness he and his family received upon the initial visit that this was the place for his children. “The best asset of this facility is the staff and how they care for each and every person that walks through the doors on a daily basis.” Taylor and Jake have entrenched themselves in the daily regime of learning, asking questions, and being inquisitive children. “Our children have grown socially, emotionally and most importantly on an educational level that we know will be a great start for them.”
Your support continues to provide tuition scholarships so that Fredi, Luzmita and parents in their position are providing the best education for children like Taylor and Jake. Your gift is invested in an efficient, effective program that assures that:
•92¢ of every dollar donated to Sheltering Arms goes to children and families.
•On average, every Sheltering Arms child met or exceeded 96% of the developmental milestones for his or her age and stage of development by the end of the school year.
•95% of four-year-olds met or exceeded kindergarten readiness requirements.
•$1 invested in quality early education returns up to $17 to the community in savings on remediation, public assistance and incarceration.
We are so grateful for all the friends like you who have helped our children and families get off to a great start this year. We are excited about the growth at Sheltering Arms, and we look forward to providing high-quality early childhood education and family support services for more children and families this year. Thank you!
“I want my boys to have the best education possible. Sheltering Arms is helping my children, and other children throughout the community, to thrive.”
If you ask Ephraim what is most important in life, he will share that the one thing he values most, is being a father. Ephraim’s pride, passion and commitment to fathering his three boys, Ely, Edres and London, shines through when he speaks. He always wanted to be a dad and sought to create a strong foundation for himself early in life. This foundation was critical – he missed having his father in his own life and vowed to give his children a different experience.
The foundation Ephraim created, starting with service in the Army, enabled him to continually transfer his values of faith, family and completing tasks with excellence to his sons. Another vehicle supporting Ephraim’s commitment to excellence has been the quality early education and family support at Sheltering Arms. His two youngest sons, Ely and Edres, attend Sheltering Arms and are doing well. “I have a lot of confidence in Sheltering Arms and we continue to teach and learn at home by talking and reading together.” Ephraim also participated in Sheltering Arms’ Fatherhood Academy. “Sheltering Arms has been great for my family. I like what my sons are being exposed to – they are challenged to think outside of the box and they are up to speed academically. The Fatherhood Academy has been helpful too. It has been great to spend time with other fathers exploring ideas and talking about what it means to be a good dad.”
For Ephraim, part of what it means to be a good dad is starting the day off right. Every morning, he wakes up early to prepare a hot breakfast for his sons and engage them in quality conversation before school, “Breakfast is my favorite meal and my boys like sitting down as a family before we get the day going.” It also means a lot to Ephraim to know that Ely and Edres are safe and learning at Sheltering Arms while he is at work.
Ultimately, Ephraim’s dream for his sons is to do all that he can to make them strong, capable men, “I want them to be in good health, to be comfortable in their skin and to be confident in who they are. I want my boys to be good people and to give and earn the respect of others. Sheltering Arms is helping me to fulfill that dream.”
With your help, Sheltering Arms is helping to make Ephraim's dream and the dreams of thousands of other families a reality. Nearly 90% of our children are from low-income working families. Your support provides tuition scholarships so that parents can afford the quality care and education their little ones need and deserve. And you can be assured that your gift is invested in an efficient, effective program:
We are so grateful for all that friends like you have helped our children and families accomplish. We look forward to positively impacting generations of families with quality child care and early learning for years to come. Thank you.
“I know the importance of good early childhood education. Without the proper start, my child could have challenges that he could face for a lifetime.”
Tilifayea understands how much her statement is true, not only because her 2 year old son attends the Dorothy Arkwright Center, but also because Tilifayea is on the cusp of receiving her Masters in Early Childhood Education from Georgia State University.
Tilifayea has been a scholar since high school! She was one of 1000 teenagers in the nation to receive The Gates Millennium Scholar; a full tuition, books, and housing scholarship funded by Bill and Melinda Gates. Tilifayea achieved this distinguished honor when she was a high school senior at Atlanta’s Fredrick Douglas High School. She knew the challenges of keeping a 3.5 grade point average when she entered Clark Atlanta University would entail a lot of hard work, several late nights, and many early mornings. Tilifayea was determined to keep her head to the grindstone in order to keep her scholarship.
In Tilifayea’s third year at Clark Atlanta, Tilifayea encountered another blessing. Dejan J. Mapson, a 7 pound 11 ounce baby boy was born. This was exciting for a mother that was majoring in Mass Communications. Tilifayea understood the importance of having strong family support as well as a strong child facility where Dejan could go to school and she could continue her studies and stay focused on her education. Tilifayea, leaned on her family to watch Dejan, but after some time, she knew that this was a challenge to her mother. She tried a home day care, but found there to be safety and scheduling issues. Tilifayea had to look into other options for her child. She tried other early learning centers but the cost was absolutely too expensive. She could not afford the fees at many of the locations.
That’s when she heard a friend talking about The Sheltering Arms Educare Center. The first day she walked into Educare she knew from her education experience that this was the place for her child. The bright colors and the greeting she received when she walked in let her know that this was where Dejan would go to school. Tilifayea immediately tried to enroll Dejan, but to her unfortunately, Educare had a waiting list. She left disappointed, however with-in a week she was driving home and noticed the Sheltering Arms Dorothy Arkwright Center. The logo looked familiar and she thought she would give it another try. She walked in and was greeted by Pat Dawson, the Family Support Coordinator. “Mrs. Pat was warm, helpful and made me feel welcome”. This was the start of a great relationship. Mrs. Dawson informed her that the center had a waiting list, but she took her information and promised to stay in contact with her. With-in one week Pat called her back with an open slot and welcomed her to the center.
“Dorothy Arkwright is like a second family to me; I know that Dejan is safe, learning and happy while I am hard at work or at school”. This is Tilifayea and Dejan’s third year at Dorothy Arkwright. She has grown so close to the staff, that they posted her graduation announcement when she graduated from Clark Atlanta University. As Dejan continues to grow-up at Dorothy Arkwright, Tilifayea has noticed that Dejan “recognizes numbers, can count to twenty and also has incredible word association”. “The experience here at Dorothy Arkwright is amazing. They have helped me with career objectives up to the point of offering me employment, ensured that Dejan will be prepared for kindergarten, and have provided strong support for me and my child to ensure that I can afford the before, and after school program just in case I have to work late or study early.” Not only that, Tilifayea now serves on the Parent Leadership Organization (PLO) at the center and she has moved into the community so that she can be a larger part of the growth at Dorothy Arkwright.
As Tilifayea and Dejan continue to grow, one of the biggest moments in her life, is deciding on if she will continue to maximize her Gates Millennium Scholarship and receive her doctorate in Educational Policy. Tilifayea is on schedule to receive her Masters in Early Childhood Education from Georgia State University in 2014!
You have helped. It is happening. Your support provided a tuition scholarship for Dejan so that Tilifayea and parents in her position could pursue their education while providing the best education for children like Dejan. Your gift is invested in an efficient, effective program that assures that:
We are so grateful for all the friends like you who have helped our children and families get off to a great start this year. We are excited about the growth at Sheltering Arms and we look forward to providing high quality early childhood education and family support services for more children and families this year. Thank you!
“If we want to live in a safe, thriving community, we need to give our children a strong foundation from the start.”
Penny believes this with all her heart and soul. Read her story, and you’ll see why.
More than 30 years ago, Penny’s mother brought her two little girls to Sheltering Arms. Their family lived in public housing near the Georgia state capitol. Penny’s mother cleaned houses for a living. She needed child care she could afford, and her precocious toddlers needed to learn.
“While I was safe and learning at Sheltering Arms, my mother worked hard to provide for us,” Penny remembers. “The help my mother got in those early years allowed her to work and save enough to eventually open her own business.”
Penny’s early start at Sheltering Arms paid off. She graduated high school with honors, went to Albany State, and was a retail manager before becoming a stay-at-home mom with baby Nolyn.
“You should be a teacher and make other kids smart like me.”
That’s what Nolyn told his mom after he started school and was quickly placed in the gifted program. Penny heard that her old alma mater, Sheltering Arms, offered training to help teachers become credentialed in early education. She jumped at the chance. Over the next few years, Penny earned her credential, came to work at Sheltering Arms, and with the help of Sheltering Arms returned to college to earn a degree in early education.
But that’s not the end of Penny’s Sheltering Arms story. When Sheltering Arms opened a new center near her old neighborhood, she knew that’s where she needed to teach. The community still struggled with poverty, crime, substance abuse, and lack of opportunity. She had a chance to share her story and to give others hope. “If I can do it,” she tells parents now, “you can do it, too.”
“You can’t let your present dictate your future.”
That’s what Penny tells her students and their parents. “When we opened the new Sheltering Arms school, we saw children and parents who were very angry. To reach them, we showed them a different kind of love.
“It started with the children. With our help, they began using words to express themselves and solve problems. I was so proud when one little boy learned to step away and direct his anger to a pillow, not his friends.
“Parents started changing, too. There was one parent I knew from growing up in the neighborhood. She was often angry and rough with her child. I talked with her, helped her through a crisis, and invited her to come into the classroom and participate in our parent services. Now, she’s so much calmer and happier, and she’s one of our most active parent volunteers.”
Since 1888, almost 50,000 children have started life ready to succeed in metro Atlanta, thanks to Sheltering Arms.
Penny is one of those 50,000…and now her new baby Wesley is, too!
Today Wesley and almost 2,400 other infants, toddlers, and preschoolers attend one of Sheltering Arms’ fifteen early education centers--all with highly trained, compassionate educators like Penny, and all with a broad range of services that build strong families and communities.
Imagine if each of the 2,400 children Sheltering Arms serves today grows up to be a Penny, giving back to make our community a better place for all of us.
With your help, it is happening. 90% of our children are from low-income working families. Your support provides tuition scholarships so parents can afford the good care and education their little ones need and deserve. And you can be assured that your gift is invested in an efficient, effective program:
We are so grateful for all that friends like you helped our children and families accomplish in 2013, and are hopeful as we look to the promise of 2014. Thank you so much.
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