Your children can usually tell when something is bothering you. As a parent, you want to protect your children-- but for them, sensing that something is wrong and not being able to talk to you about it, often causes a great deal of fear and worry. Talking to your children at a level that is right for their ages and personalities can help make both you and your children feel a greater sense of control during this difficult time. Have faith in your children’s ability to handle the news. Being truthful with your children will give them a better understanding of what you're going through and will give them the opportunity to share their feelings and concerns.
Some factors you may want to consider to help you talk with your child about your cancer are:
Talk it out. No matter how much you prepare for the conversation, you may still have questions. If you're having trouble deciding how or if to tell your children, your healthcare team may be able to give you advice. You can also contact The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society (LLS) chapter in your area or an LLS Information Specialist (800-955-4572). Visit the LLS Blood Cancer Discussion Boards to speak with other parents. In addition visit www.lls.org to review our vast information for patients and caregivers, and contact national and local offices for additional support.
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