Empower Abused and Trafficked Vietnamese Women

 
$33,947
$19,753
Raised
Remaining
Apr 3, 2014

Latest update

Highlights

* Hagar Vietnam expanded its reach and initiated partnerships with three new Northern provinces. In collaboration with other organisations, significant progress was made in forming lasting relationships to support future projects 

* The new Psychology Department held a two-day life skills training event focused on effective communication and self-defense in high-risk situations. Many clients from rural communities are still adapting to city life. Clients learned about the risks associated with living in Hanoi and shared that they felt more confident and safer, knowing how to protect themselves in their new environment.

28  Clients were served through the Economic empowerment program

4 clients continued to develop floral arrangement and entrepreneurial skills on international womens day

8 survivors of trafficking and domestic violence attended a 2 week counselling course

8 Clients learned job search and internview skills and toured 5 businesses

Mai’s Story

Despite being 17 years old, Mai is currently the main source of income for her family. When she graduated from her vocational cooking programme, Mai hesitated to enter into an internship programme with the Golden Apple in Hanoi. Instead, she considered passing on the opportunity to return home and assist her parents.

“If I get this job, I could pursue my dream to become a good cook, but would not be able to support my family for sixmonths. If I return home and work as a farmer, I could bring some money to my parents, but that also means I would lose this precious chance. What should I do?” 

After multiple sessions with her case manager focused on identifying and evaluating the disadvantages and advantages associated with both options (and with some encouragement from her family), Mai decided to take the internship. It has been almost twomonths since Mai started working in the kitchen of the Hilton Opera Hotel, and she is thriving. She is happy and more confident—her face is noticeably brighter. Mai has transformed from a shy little girl to a confident young woman!

“I love my job and get excited going to work every day. I am thankful for my friendly supervisor and colleagues. I have learned a lot of useful and positive things that the vocational center could not give me ,”she shared.

Recently, the Human Resources Director of the Hilton Hotel offered Mai a full-time position upon completion of her internship. This news boosted Mai’s confidence and has motivated her to continue reaching for her dreams.

Dec 2, 2013

Vietnam progress and Tams Story

 

Latest stats from the field:
32 Counselling sessions conducted each month
2 Training sessions for case managers
2 Self defense lessons consducted with clients
Tams Story
Tam is 25 years old and endured years of abuse by herfather and her husband. Due to the lack of aection andattention from the time she was young, Tam was extremely vulnerable. She married a man who professed his love forher without knowing much about his background and wassubsequently abused.
I come from a very traditional family. My father did not likeme because I was born a girl. I had a poor relationship withhim. He was very violent towards my mother and I. Manytimes, we left the house to stay with relatives when he hitus. One evening, he was so drunk and started hitting mymother and I. He drove both of us out of the house.
We decided that we couldn’t take it anymore and moved to Hanoi. That was in 2009.
In 2011, I met my husband in Hanoi. I knew him for several months and he proposed to me. I was verymoved as I thought I had found true love in this world. I borrowed money for our wedding because bothof us couldn’t aord it. I can still remember the day I was married. I was very happy and looking forwardto our beautiful life together.
Two days later, I learned by accident that he had already been married. He was separated from his wifebut he never told me that.
I was devastated. How could he have cheated me? But I forgave him. I was willing to be a submissivewife.
Things got worse. He lied to me and said he was looking for a job. But he never wanted to work. He wasalways hanging out with his friends. Whatever money I earned went into his pocket. When I refused togive him my salary, he hit me. After I gave birth to my daughter, the hitting became worse.
One day it got so bad that I had to run away from the house, leaving my daughter behind. I regretted mydecision of leaving her behind. But I had no choice because he stopped me and I did not have enoughstrength to ght back. When I came back, he told me that my daughter had been sent away to live withmy mother-in-law. When I called him to request to have my daughter, he wanted US$3000 from me.Where can I get the money to pay him? I still have not paid o the debt of another US$3000 owed for the wedding.
Thanks to Hagar, I have a place to stay, I receive training and I have a job at Joma.
My faith in God keeps me strong. I am trying to work very hard to save money to pay o my debts andto get my daughter back. I am not sure how long this will take and whether I can ever hold my daughteragain, as I earn only $150 a month. But I will continue to work hard, hope and pray.
For six months, Hagar has been supporting Tam with counseling, vocational training and employmentat Joma. She has shown commitment and diligence in her work at Joma. She is also receivingcounseling to help her manage her feelings of guilt over leaving her daughter. Hagar Vietnamhas referred Tam for legal advice on custody issues and is supporting her in being economicallyindependent.
Jul 31, 2013

Hagar Was There For Me

I’ve never really gotten along with anybody. It all started with my parents who divorced when I was fifteen. At first, I was in conflict with my father. And then with my mother. Although I was intelligent and accomplished, these difficulties at home left me contemplating suicide. 

I finally thought I was doing well when I finished my first year of university. But then I was kidnapped and forced to marry the man who smuggled me away from my home to the capital city. Eventually, I escaped but had nowhere to go. Luckily, I found Hagar, participated in one of their vocational training programs and got a job in the kitchen at Joma Bakery Café. I did so well that I became employed by a few foreign families. That’s when I began my relationship with an older man—a Westerner. 

Things didn’t work out with him and a few years later I found myself in trouble in Malaysia. I had overstayed the visa I got to work in a Chinese factory. My case manager at Hagar helped me return to Vietnam but then I reentered the country illegally to be with my African boyfriend who I met online. 

All was well for the first few months of our relationship. I was pregnant and happy. But then I unexpectedly found myself caught in a drug trafficking ring and was asked by my new family and friends to participate in the trade. When I refused, the father of my child destroyed my belongings and came after me. 

Hagar tried to rescue me through a partner organization where I was staying. The staff even went as far as to contact the embassy on my behalf. But I was too caught up in all the brokenness and the pain of my life to receive the help that was being offered. Nevertheless, my original caseworker maintained contact with me. I am now home and am trying to reintegrate with my family. 

Sometimes I look at my life and wonder how with so much promise, everything still turned out this way. Why I was brought up in such a destructive environment and why this experience continues to influence my choices? My whole life it has seemed that everyone has just given up on me—has either let me down or despised me. But through it all has Hagar has been there, is there and will continue to be there for me even when I haven’t done the best job of being there for myself.

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May 7, 2013

How you gave Diep a new life

When you supported this Hagar project, you gave new life to Vietnamese women from impossible backgrounds.  Women like Diep: 

Diep was born into poverty. Like so many others in rural Vietnam, she was essentially destined to a life of hardship and pain. Her family grew rice and because her mother remarried—divorce is unheard of in most Southeast Asian countries—Diep was stigmatized within her community. This shame resulted in her never being allowed to go to school.

When she was still young, Diep moved in with her boyfriend. Her family disapproved of their relationship and refused to let her marry him. Nevertheless, they had two children together but due to a lack of education and job opportunities, could only afford to keep one. Struggling to deal with such impossible decisions, Diep’s boyfriend acquired a taste for alcohol and began to abuse her. She eventually left him but in order to do so also had to leave behind their son.

Unfortunately, Diep’s life only continued to get worse. She was tricked into being trafficked to neighboring China where she became a prisoner in the home of her new “husband”. Throughout the year she lived with him, she was only allowed to leave the house once. Somehow Diep escaped and managed to return to Vietnam and she became connected with Hagar.

“For most of my life I’ve had nothing—no family, no job and no idea how to change my circumstances,” Diep reflected. “But Hagar has given me a second chance.”

Diep is currently working with Hagar staff to set education and career goals that will help her achieve the future she desires. And as she noted, “The life I deserve.”

Feb 14, 2013

Linh's Courage

Despite her hardship, LInh already smiles
Despite her hardship, LInh already smiles

Linh was raised in central Vietnam, in a very poor family.  She was forced to work as a child, and she never got to go to school. Abuse by her father continued for years.

At 21, Linh escaped this difficult home life.  She married and had a child.  Things were much better, but then her husband was tragically killed.  Linh was forced to find a way to support herself. Although hesitant, she accepted a job in a textile factory in Russia.  She hoped to make enough money in a short time to support her child for years to come.

It didn't work out that way. In Russia, her passport was taken and she was forced to work in a sweatshop 20 hours a day. She was given little to eat and slept in overcrowded, cold, and dirty conditions with dozens of other Vietnamese people.  Some of them had been there for four years. None had been paid.

Finally the sweatshop was raided and everyone was sent home. Now, Linh is with Hagar Vietnam. She's not whole yet, but we believe she will be. And its our privilege to journey alongside her. When you support this project, you help more women like Linh become whole again.

 Please note:  To protect the identity of our clients, photos do not necessarily represent individuals profiled.

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