Dear friends, Because of your generous support, 41 women and children received individual and group counseling at our Cambodian safe house this past quarter, including 10 victims of human trafficking, 13 victims of rape and 18 victims of domestic violence. Our two psychologists additionally accompanied clients to court hearings on 14 different occasions to provide emotional support to the girls as they courageously pursue legal action against their perpetrators. Our team was also successful in reintegrating seven clients (and their children) back into Cambodian society following their treatment and stay at the shelter. Each family was provided a $50 life support package (including food, clothing and kitchenware) to help them get on their feet. We are also pleased to share that we have started piloting a new economic empowerment model for reintegrated clients and other at-risk women in their communities. Currently, we are operating two financial cooperatives or "Self Help Groups" consisting of 11 women total. This model for client economic empowerment shows tremendous promise over traditional microfinance and grant programs, as the women are immediately plugged into a system of social support and business collaboration. One of these groups established a large chicken farming operation, and their first hatchlings will soon be ready to take to market! We'd like to thank you again for extending a loving hand to these women and girls, and for giving them a chance at a new life. To learn more about Lotus Outreach, please visit us online at www.lotusoutreach.org or drop us a note at email@example.com.
Wishing you health, peace and prosperity in the New Year!
With your generous support, Lotus Outreach provided loving care to dozens of abused women and girls through our shelter-based counseling project in Cambodia. Here is just a partial list of our achivements for 2011:
We thank you again for your generous support of Lotus Outreach, and for joining us in the fight again modern-day slavery. When the world turned its back on these women and children, you stepped in and provided an environment from which courageous, strong and empowered survivors could emerge.Warmest regards,Erika KeaveneyExecutive DirectorPS – Want to learn more about our efforts to combat poverty and its consequences in the developing world? Be sure to subscribe to our newsletter here: https://www.z2systems.com/np/clients/lotusoutreach/survey.jsp?surveyId=6
Like so many of the people we help, 20 year-old Huon (name has been changed) is one of many children in her family who dropped out of school early to earn a living. Three years ago, ever difficult financial circumstances persuaded her to travel to Malaysia for work through a Cambodian recruiting agency. Unbeknownst to her, all too often these agencies are thinly veiled fronts for human trafficking rings.
Once in Malaysia, Huon was overworked, beaten and starved at the hands of her employers. Needless to say, she didn’t receive her wages. At her first opportunity to communicate with the Malaysian agency which placed her, Huon filed a complaint, requested to be placed elsewhere and to have her back-wages paid.
To her great relief, the agency agreed to find Huon another job, but her hopes quickly turned to horror. She was drugged and abused even worse than before. Recruiting agents broke into the bathroom while she was showering, taking photos of her.
Terrified, Huon threatened to have them arrested, but they countered with a greater menace – they knew where her family lived. Any attempt at retaliation from Huon would be paid for by her loved ones.
The fear for her own safety, as well as her family’s and the strain of trauma weighed heavily on Huon. She cracked. Throwing random fits and violent outbursts at all hours, even in the middle of the night, the agency conceded that her instability was more than she was worth to them. They transferred her to a mental hospital, where she was repatriated to Cambodia.
Huon has been at our shelter for five months now, receiving medication and individual counseling. Her recovery is slow, but overall her condition has greatly improved.
Although the Consoling Through Counseling project pursues prosecutions and convictions of our clients’ persecutors, in Huon’s case the most we can do is attempt to recover her unpaid wages. Cambodia has no memorandum of understanding with Malaysia regarding migrant labor, leaving us no means by which to investigate abuses of Cambodians on Malaysian soil. Meanwhile, the Cambodian recruiting agency that contracted Huon has gone underground.
However, Huon’s case is one of many that has been highlighted by groups and advocates currently working on an agreement with the Malaysian government to recognize legal rights of migrant workers. We are happy to see greater emphasis being placed on international cooperation to stymie criminal networks and bring perpetrators to justice.
Every dollar you give brings a victim closer to closure and healing – including prosecuting her abuser when possible. Thank you for fighting with us!
When 11 year-old Thuk came to our shelter her behavior was described as that of a caged animal. Frustrated by confinement, she tried to run away time and again; her hair was unkempt, her skin was dirty and covered with scars. She trusted no one, and if she got angry she ran outside and hid in the bushes.
Running away was Thuk’s coping mechanism at home, too. It was her only escape from the abuse of her parents, both of whom beat her severely. She’d never been to school. Last May, she was found hiding in a forest near her home and was brought to our after-care center in Sisophon, Cambodia.
Thuk’s arrival was disruptive to life at the shelter. When she disappeared, which was often, everyone dropped what they were doing to look for her. For weeks she wouldn’t talk to anyone except the monitoring officer that referred her to us; it wasn’t until her third month that she even began coming to her counseling sessions. Everyone was careful with her, and she got very angry if not given attention when she sought it.
Thuk finally began meeting with her therapist in August but showed up irregularly and often late. Even then, she still refused to speak. Kumni had her mold clay into simple figures – things she liked, things she didn’t like, things she was afraid of.
Slowly, Thuk began to share her thoughts in words, although her early voice was barely audible. Moreover, she oddly referred to herself always by a different name. Kumni asked her to draw pictures of her experiences, and at first Thuk only drew from positive memories. Kumni taught her how to make flowers and jewelry, slowly gaining her trust and establishing a safe space. One day while drawing, Thuk opened up and told Kumni her story in her own words.
Over the course of her therapy, Thuk’s behavior changed drastically. She now comes to her appointments when they are scheduled and she is much more cooperative in doing what she is asked. She is attentive to her appearance and personal cleanliness, washing regularly and combing her hair.
Thuk has been enrolled in school and wants to be a teacher. She worries about succeeding because she has missed so much, and she doesn’t want to go home. Her mother gambles, both her parents travel to work in Thailand and she has no reason to think they will stop beating her. Our local partner is looking at options for long-term care so Thuk can continue to grow and study in a supportive environment.
Outcomes like these bear testament to the patience, love and hundreds of hours our counselors put into their patients. Their work is transformative on the minds, hearts and souls of the women and children that find themselves here. But it is your support that makes it possible for us to provide girls like Thuk with this sanctuary while they recover. Thank you for helping Thuk make her final escape – literally out of the woods, and into a life of nurturing.
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The daughter of farm laborers, 14 year-old Suy Channery* left the public school system in grade three to help out with adult responsibilities. Her voice became soft when we asked about her education. “I dropped out of school a long time ago,” she says. “When I was 10 years old I worked in Thailand for a year making leather shoes. It wasn’t hard, as I was there with my two older sisters and a neighbor. The working day was 7-12 hours, and we each made $60 per month.”
Last year, a friend from a neighboring farm asked Channery to stay with her while her parents were away. The young woman’s 18 year-old brother came in to where Channery was sleeping that night and raped her, covering her mouth to stifle her cries. "I tried to make him stop, but he was too strong,” she says.
Channery told her mother what had happened, the police were called and the young man was arrested in June 2010. We met Channery when the two families were unable to come to an agreement on compensation, and in September asked our local partner (the Cambodian Women’s Crisis Center) for legal advice. They referred Channery to our safe shelter in nearby Sisophon.
Our counselor, Sokny, reports that Channery displayed symptoms of depression and withdrawal similar to that of many trauma victims: she didn’t bathe, she isolated herself from others, cried frequently, and discussed feelings of hopelessness and anger. “I felt ashamed of myself and felt my reputation was destroyed,” Channery recalls. “I thought my neighbors, being the only people I knew, would think badly of me.”
With nine months of nurturing through shelter activities and individual and group counseling, Channery’s outlook improved markedly. She began communicating more naturally, made friends among the other patients, and reported feeling less ashamed.
When her court hearing arrived Channery gathered all her courage to tell her story in its entirety to a room full of strangers - and her attacker. Once the terrifying experience was over, she was filled with relief. She had braved public humiliation and survived – and found a strength she didn’t know she’d had.
While we hoped that the defendant would be sentenced to 15 years for sexually assaulting a minor, in the court considered the act to be consensual since the perpetrator's sister was not woken up by her cries. He received four years for having sex with a minor and was ordered to pay $10,000 in compensation.
Re-entering the school system will be difficult for someone as far behind as Channery. She took tailoring training at the shelter, and was reintegrated with a $50 life start-up gift in August.
*name has been changed
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