Child Adoption and Orphan Childcare in India

Summary

Promote adoption/destitute child care; Provide a family/home for every waiting orphaned infant from rural India; offer Quality care for the un-adopted. Upgrede agencies; train; change policy/practice. project reportread updates from the field

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Project Needs and Beneficiaries

Adoption is a complete/permanent form of child rehabilitation. It provides a home/ family/ health/ education/career/inheritance. India has 12 million orphans/only 3500 adoptions/year; many below 6 years can be adopted. Children in rural agencies/ older children remain un-adopted; the rehabilitation outcome is poor. Red tape, cumber-some/unethical practices are road-blocks. We ask city parents to adopt from rural agencies. We upgrade agencies. Through Govt. intervention we change policy/practice

Activities

We identify (rural) agencies where children are awaiting adoption; invite city parents to adopt from there. Upgrade agencies through support/training (childcare/ frastructure/paperwork); sensitize, coordinate with Govt./judiciary for policy change.

Funding Information

Total Funding Received to Date: $5,296
Remaining Goal to be Funded: $22,204
Total Funding Goal: $27,500

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This project has provided additional documentation in a Microsoft Word file (projdoc.doc).

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Why this Project is Important

Potential Long Term Impact

We aim, through quality-care, to deliver a youth population of destitute children who grow to be the best. Every waiting child must find a home or get quality care. Policies/practices must allow automatic movement into the suited care-option

Project Message

“We must hang our heads down in shame, if we cannot do this little bit for the millions of our children who so desperately need help. No effort is too small; we can all Chip- in”
- Bharati Dasgupta, Managing Trustee

Who is Running This Project

Contact

Bharati Dasgupta
Managing Trustee
c/o kale consultants,1st floor,Sharada Arcade
Satara Road
Pune, Maharashtra 411 037
India
+91-20-66083777
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Project Sponsor

Bharati Dasgupta

Organization

Catalysts for Social Action Logo

Catalysts for Social Action
685/2B and 2C, 1st Floor Sharada Archade, Satara Road
Pune, India 411037
India
*91-20-66083777
http://www.csa.org.in

Where this Project is Located

Country

This project is located in IndiaIndia and can also be found under ChildrenChildren.

For more information about India, read the Human Development Report on India or the Wikipedia entry for India.

When this Project was Updated

Last Updated

This project was last updated on March 10, 2010.

Date Added to GlobalGiving

This project was added to the GlobalGiving project catalog on July 31, 2009

Latest Update from the Field

My own feelings....

By T.E,Rassull - Manager-Advocay & Resource Mobilisation, March 10, 2010 01:44 PM

Mother
Dear Donors,
Thank you for your continued support. We have tried a different way of reporting our activities this time. The following is the story by single adoptive mother Nalini, in her own words who CSA supported in her process. Moreover , please remember that on 16 March 2010, GlobalGiving will be matching all donations made to this project on www.globalgiving.org by 30% (up to $1,000 per person. Please do donate and spread the word for CSA to contribute on that day. Here goes the true tale:-
My own feeling …..
“You are single and want to adopt a child! That is impossible”, said my parents. My mother immediately went to her room, locked up and started crying. I also saw tears in my sister’s eyes. They wanted me to get married and have my own biological child like my two siblings. My dreams of adopting were shattered.
My greatest challenge was in getting the approval of someone who would give the undertaking for the child I was to adopt.My friend Mala willingly agreed to give the undertaking for the child I was to adopt. This turned out to be a giant leap. I filed my papers for Adoption on September 11th 2009. My social worker Vanita fixed the home study on 24th September. It was a much tensed period as my parents were still against it.
After my home study, there were greater challenges ahead. I approached many Adoption homes in Bangalore to know that there was a long waiting list and the preference was given to couples without children. I being unmarried and single was also not in my favour.
Then my friend Anita came to my rescue. She gave me the contact number of Mrs. Usha Pillai of CSA. I had a telephonic conversation with her and she seemed very positive. She forwarded my details to two of her coordinators- Lucy Mathew and Pallavi. On November 11th I received a mail from Lucy Mathew informing me that there is a child of my requirement at Latur, Sishu Mandir. I spoke to Mrs. Gaikwad at Sishu Mandir and decided that the child Nisha located for me was my child. I did not ask for any snap of the child but went by Mrs.Lucy’s words because I knew she was trustworthy. She told me that the child was medium complexion and healthy. That was enough. I started working towards visiting and getting the baby destined for me in the same visit.
My friend Vidya accompanied me to Latur. So, the date of the visit and getting the baby was finalized to 8th December. It seemed that God had finally heard my prayers! One week before I was to leave for Latur, my parents changed their mind and gave me full support. My father even accompanied me to the lawyer and the Police commissioner’s office to get all the documents ready for adoption. His support was great and gave me so much of strength. I was now set with all the documents and was mentally prepared to bring home my child.
My first meeting with Nisha was to be on 10th December. As the day approached, I was very nervous about it. Every child I saw on the way, made me wonder if my child would be like this. As I was waiting impatiently for her, Nisha was brought to me. She wore a red frock which was too long for her. She was so different from all the children I had ever imagined. She was very weak, with scanty brown hair and looked under nourished. To add to this, her hair was well oiled and combed into a side partition and her face was powered (extra). She was crying when they got her out. I did not feel like carrying her and I almost asked God why has he sent this child to me? I was angry and upset and I felt like crying. I controlled all my emotions. Vidya carried Nisha first and as she knew marathi she started the conversation with her. I was still wondering if I should carry her or not. Finally, Vidya asked me to carry her and I did it reluctantly and realized that she was so light. We spent around one and a half hours with her. During this time I saw her more closely and realized she had long black eyelashes though her hair was brown. I presumed that this could be due to malnourishment. She was a normal and active child. But as every one had warned me I wanted to subject her to a thorough medical checkup. The medical report turned out to be good except that she was malnourished. I decided to adopt Nisha. I submitted all the papers to the court for adoption and on the next day, 12th December we had a court hearing which went off well and by evening she was my child.
My next step was to prepare my family members for accepting Nisha- I was so worried about how my parents would accept her as I myself had taken some time for this. I was surprised when they accepted her readily like any of their other grandchildren.
Now Nisha has become Amodhini – one who gives happiness. She wants to be called Amo and not Nisha or Amodha or Amodhini. She goes to a play home close to my house. Both my parents have many things to tell about her everyday when I reach home from work. Now she is my dad’s pet. He drops her to school and picks her up every day. Amodhini has really brought happiness to our house.
Hope you have overwhelmed by this heart warming story as much as we have in CSA. Please keep contributing to our cause so that we can keep bringing to you many more such stories by addressing Child Right through Child Adoption and Orphan care.
With Thanks and Regards,
Rassull
CSA

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