Care and Support 50 Orphan Adols with HIV in India

 
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Awake | Arise | Shine – Buds Leadership Camp 2015

The Buds leadership camp for 2015 was organised on the theme Awake, Arise and Shine at House of Peace, Yercuad from 26th to 30th of May 2015. The leadership camp is primarily organised in building future leaders among the orphaned adolescents reached through Buds of Christ to reach out to young children and youth belonging to challenging circumstances. The camp outcome is to enable the youngsters to focus and encourage young people like them to live the future with hope and courage.

The main aspects of the camp were on motivational sessions by external consultants, action songs, dance and reflective (personal and group) exercises that enabled the participants to be more involved in the learning.

The First day themed AWAKE: The participants were guided in understanding their self worth through demonstrative sessions by Mr. Santharaj from Salem. The key learning the participants gained was each one has been born with potential that is masked by low self worth that is projected through shyness, considering one as incapable for the task, fear of being open etc. He encouraged the participants to look into their inner self and be proud of the uniqueness in oneself.

This was followed by exercise on the Tree of life (a manual developed by REPSII, South Africa) that was adapted in helping the participants  look into the special abilities each  one possesses. The compilation of all the trees was set as the forest of life. This exercise helped the participants look into the other part of their life, focusing on their strengths, talents and skills. They also acknowledged the key roles played by their well-wishers. At the end of the exercise the participants become more enthusiastic especially when their peers shared the qualities they observed in each other.

“I was very thrilled when friends certain qualities I was not aware of; I was also very happy because I felt I was keenly observed by my friends". - expressed an orphan girl living with HIV

“I have always felt I am not capable of doing great task, but here when my friends shared the qualities I possess and how it has benefitted them, I feel proud of myself" - expressed an orphan boy living with HIV

The second day themed ARISE: The participants gained an understanding on the fears and challenges that overwhelm them. The session lead by Dr. John Daniel Ph.D, helped the participants understand the internal (self -made) challenges that affects once progress. He outlined four areas, Lack of knowledge, lack of accountability, lack of enthusiasm and lack of commitment. This enabled the young people reflect on their own personal experiences and make decisions that will make them move forward.

Following participatory discussion on the challenges they experience and overcoming them, a reinforcing session on practical ways to arise out of the existing situation was explained with illustration.

“It was a wonderful experience to learn that life is not an event, but a process, so the sad moment will pass away and I need not dwell, nor plan based on the present circumstances” – expressed a 18 year old orphan girl

“For me, it was an eye-opening experience to understand that I myself have caused limitation to my growth and if I need to move forward, I should be the change" – expressed a 17 year old orphan boy

The final session of the day was setting up personal plans and guided by a mentor.

The third day themed SHINE: The participants were oriented on the need to change and I was stressed that the change should come from them and should be with strong willingness. The session was followed by a group exercise where the participants reflected on the shining moment where they have felt good and some moments where they been a shining moment for others. On reflecting the two instances, majority expressed that it is more satisfying when they have been the cause of shine for others.

“Having failed in my public exam, I could not continue studies after my 10th. So I got trained in beautician course and with that skill I am working in the parlour. In that earning, one of my friend who wanted to do higher studies was in financial need for continuing her education, I was happy that I could be of help and offered support” - expressed a young person living with HIV.

At the end of the day, each participant were involved in setting a social goal that would help other children and young people coming from challenging circumstances. The session then ended with a commitment which was shared by the participants in open.

We sincerely thank Global Giving Donors who have helped 10 orphaned adolesents living with HIV to attend this leadership camp, who have found hope amidst their troubled situations.

This month the session for the adolescents living with HIV (vetri kootam) was  on reflecting and valuing the relationships around them. It has always been a challenging experience for young people living with HIV, in overcoming the fear due to self stigma and finding good relationships that helps them handle the fear and creating sense of self respect.

Prior to the discussion on relationship around them, the young people shared their experiences of opening up their HIV status to their close friends. Three of them  have recieved positive support one of the three; sheela expressed "I was always scared about sharing my HIV status to my friend, and after the previous month support group meeting I took the courage to share my status and was surprised to receive a supportive response from her. She is more closer and more concerned about me now and I am very happy about it".

Later the discussion  on the various relationships and the levels of influence each relationships have were discussed. The majority, especially orphan young people have valued the center based support group as their source of support and motivation. On discussing  what they have gained  from the cherished relationships, it has been love and encouragement, especially when they have felt lonely and depressed. The session became very emotional, when the orphan young boys expressed that their complete source of encouragement has been the support group.

Hari expressed, "Being a complete orphan is a challenging one, esepcially growing into an young adult. The realtives who showed care, now seemed to be more opportunistic, especially in taking custody over a piece of land that is in my mother's name. For me, now it is the freinds here and the center, is building me and giving me a focus about life."

 The day ended with the young people cutting a cake in celebrating the friendly relationships that they have gained through the support group. Among the 15 participants, majority are complete orphan young people and the others are under the care of widow mothers.

The support group, vetri kootam is organised every month at Buds of Christ center and is impacting the lives of young people living with HIV to set higher goals and lead life positively. This programme is supported by Global Giving through the Care and support for adolescents living with HIV. We thank the donors for making the change in the lives of these young people living with HIV.

This month support group for young people had a clear purpose of addressing stigma related to HIV. As the focus of the organization for the year is to destigmatising HIV, the first meeting of the support for the year started with the session on the perceptions of stigma and ways in overcoming stigma.

The discussion became emotional when the group shared their experiences of facing stigma. The sharing revealed how the young people were greatly affected by the discriminatory attitude towards them.

As the group felt that addressing self stigma is much easier than sensitizing the community, the members evolved the following points as progressive steps for overcoming fear;

  • Have complete information about HIV and AIDS and clarify any kind of myths and misconceptions
  • Visiting or accessing places where one receives motivation and positive encouragement.
  • Identify a trust worthy mentor who will guide and encourage
  • Sharing  right information about HIV and AIDS to people in the neighborhood and school
  • Will first attempt disclosure of one’s HIV status with a person who is already stigmatised or discriminated
  • Sharing one’s HIV status with a trusted individual

Each member in the group have taken up the level they are comfortable and will develop plan for execution and share their experiences, next month.

At the end, almost the entire group felt it was necessary to address self stigma and three of them have expressed that they are taking up the challenge of sharing their HIV status to their friends and one to their relative which they have been thinking for a long time.

Thank You for making a difference in my life
Thank You for making a difference in my life

Dear Friend and Partner

This is the best time of the year to thank you, as you took the step to touch the lives of our children at Buds of Christ.

As we near the end of the year 2014, I bow my head to thank God for you! because you are a blessing for Buds of Christ.

As I type the mail, I remember the quote of Mother Teresa “We cannot do great things on this Earth, only small things with great love”

Because its only through friends like you that Buds of Christ can be here with resources to love and support struggling orphan children and families who have nowhere else to go for support.

This year alone, your generosity has helped us to directly support over 220 orphan children affected by HIV and AIDS in areas of their Health, Education, Advocacy and Leadership.
 
Your love, generosity has lit the light of Hope in the lives of our children. How true it is that the smallest act of your kindness is worth more than the grandest intention.

We take this moment to give you thanks for who you are and what you have done in the lives of our children. We can say no other answer; but THANKS, and THANKS and ever THANKS.

Sincerely Giving Thanks not only helps us recognize how our children are blessed through you but it also motivates us to continue to do good for those who are in need.

Thank you so much for being a blessing!

with thanks and regards
Jeyapaul
Founder Director 

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Kavi (10 years) and her sibling brother (13 years) went out of the hospital with a cheerful heart. It was Kavi’s birthday and she and her brother had come to collect their monthly medicines ART, at Government Hospital.

As part of the Little Stars group at the hospital, they attended today’s session on personal hygiene. After actively participating in the session, Kavi was one of the two who enjoyed the sweet surprise of cutting birthday cake at the hospital. Kavi expressed “Today is the most happiest day in my life, because it has been the first time experience in my life in cutting the cake”. Kavi and her brother lost both their parents to AIDS when they were very small.

The Little Stars Support Group Meeting is part of Buds of Christ initiative in partnership with health department of Govt in helping children living with HIV, be comfortable in accessing the hospital and making it more child friendly; and the birthday cake cutting was initiated and supported by the staff of the ART center.

Buds of Christ’s reason for existence is to empower children affected by HIV and AIDS to live life with dignity and support them to emerge as children of hope of courage to their peers.

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Jeyapaul Sunder Singh

Namakkal District, India

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