Days for Girls International

Creating a more dignified, free and educated world through access to lasting feminine hygiene solutions.
Dec 9, 2014

She Just Wants to Give Back... You Made it Possible

Lydia gives back
Lydia gives back

"I just want to give back," Lydia says from her small village of Budondo, Iganga District in Uganda. At the age of 7, Lydia’s father travelled to Russia for work, leaving Lydia with her younger brother Dennis, and their mother. While they missed their father terribly (and he missed them too!), and it was often difficult to pay for school fees and put food on the table, they found tremendous support in their community. With her father’s hard work, Lydia was able to graduate from high school (one of the few girls in her community to do so) and even made it to University in the capital city, Kampala.

Once there, she struggled to pay the fees. She did a short tailoring program and realized she could use this skill to help raise money for school. She managed to convince her school to hire her to make the graduation gowns and she sewed many with a few of her friends. With that income, she was able to support herself throughout University and graduated! The support she had from her community as a child was her primary motivation to return to her home village after graduating. She wanted to give back.

When Lydia learned about the Days for Girls training program, she knew it was the perfect match for her community. She joined in the training and made a beautiful kit for herself. After completing the training, she raised enough money to purchase materials and train high school students in her community to make kits for themselves. She plans to use this skill to start a small business at their community health center in January so that they can reach as many women as possible with this solution.

Meanwhile, in the first week of December Uganda conducted their last scheduled training of 2014. The DfGU team traveled to Lira, a beautiful town in Northern Uganda, to conduct a Kit Business training. This training was hosted by Children of Peace, and brought together 30 young women to learn reproductive health, kit making, soap making, and business skills. Days for Girls partners with many such wonderful organizations. These women were affected by the war in the early 2000s, and Children of Peace has provided them with opportunities to learn, grow and become ambassadors of peace going forward. The ladies were attentive and ready to learn Days for Girls Ambassador of Women's Health program, and they also lead some memorable singing and dancing sessions during our breaks.

Here is the story of Dilish, just one of the women there:

Dilish is a quiet and beautiful young woman from Lira district. Just speaking with her one would never guess the horrible violence she experienced at the hands of the Lords Resistance Army (LRA) during the war in Northern Uganda. As a child she was kidnapped by the LRA and held for years. During this time, she lost most of her family. When she finally managed to escape, she found herself with no parents or guardians and many young siblings to care for. Today, at the age of 16, she is the head of her household.

Although she receives an educational scholarship from Children of Peace Uganda, she struggles to pay for other household essentials. Due to these difficult circumstances, pads are often low of the list of priorities and she finds herself with nothing to use during menstruation. She has primarily been using old rags or underwear as her menstrual hygiene solution, which leaves her vulnerable to leakages, stains, and infections. Dilish joined the Days for Girls training and was so excited to have her very own kit! She has even mastered the sewing machine and helped many of her fellow classmates complete the sewing of their own Days for Girls kits. She says that one day, she would like to become a Days for Girls trainer so that she can teach others these kinds of life-changing skills!

Planning for 2015

This has been an amazing year of learning, growth, opportunities, challenges, and accomplishments. We have come a long way from where we started thanks to the dedication of our team, the excitement of our communities, and the support of Global Giving and our amazing partners!! Leaders from many nations are scheduling visits to DfG Uganda to learn to replicate components of our programs in their areas. We are ready for 2015 and can’t wait to share with you many more of the stories of the girls and women we serve! Thank you for making so much possible.

With gratitude,

Libby

Dilish training others
Dilish training others
Oct 13, 2014

Girl Power and the Power of Failing Forward

Girls served by Days for Girls New Zealand
Girls served by Days for Girls New Zealand

Yesterday my friend Betty and I fell into fits of laughter over, let’s just say it, the pathetic first kits of Days for Girls. I usually say that you have to be with our team for 6 months before we’ll show them to you, because they are that embarrassing. Betty and I were sharing the wonder of Days for Girls global effectiveness in just 6 years (Our birthday is  November 1st) and how far the kits and our unexpected purpose has come. I can tell you that one of the secrets of our success has been tenacious flexibility to listen to feedback and respond to the wisdom of those we serve. In other words, we failed fabulously forward and the resulting empowerment has reached 75+ nations on 6 continents.

Failure 1: Overlooking the basics.  I had been passionate about seeking and implementing global sustainable solutions in Kenya and beyond for 2 1/2 years, looking for solutions to break cycles of poverty. I failed to ask a basic question that is pivotal to reversing barriers to education, health and dignity for women around the globe. It came to me in one of those, “How-did-I-not-think-of-this-before?” breathtaking moments. I had been voluntarily helping raise support for an orphanage after meeting the children during a dignitary invitational visit to the slums of Kibera. My response was practical solutions such as efficient Rocket stoves, library books and food but I never thought to ask the basic question, “What are the girls doing for feminine hygiene?” The answer turned out to be, “Nothing. They wait in their rooms.” I tried to imagine how girls waited, packed 50 to a room in overcrowded bunks. It turned out they waited on a piece of cardboard. No sanitation, no classroom access, nothing, for 4 days. Every month. I knew we had to do something. 

Failure 2: What works for me.... I found a nonprofit that offered disposable pads at a discount right in Nairobi. We purchased one month’s supply for $200 for the 500 girls needing them. Somehow I had failed to consider that there was no place to dispose of soiled disposable pads. The pads were left littered everywhere, causing more stigma and health issues as the girls tried to wash and reuse pads discarded in piles. Not to mention that every pit latrine was stopped up with soiled “disposables.” 

I did know, however, that even if I could manage to raise $200 a month for disposable hygiene, if I sent money for pads, and they needed food, they would purchase food, not pads. That turns out to be true worldwide. Anywhere that a family or group has to choose between food and pads, the choice is clear. We knew we had to come up with a sustainable solution. We had 3 1/2 weeks to design and implement kits for 500 girls before I returned to Kenya. Impossible? We did it thanks to another secret of our success, passionate, phenomenal volunteers. 

Failure 3:  Design informed by what we know. We made our 500 sanitary kits white, because pads are white, right? We made them oval... because that’s what pads look like. Both traditional choices caused problems for the girls. There is such stigma about menstruation that they would hide the pads under their beds rather than dry them in sunlight. But would you and I want to publicly display stained pad-shaped items in our front yard? I hadn’t thought of that. I had only considered the need-- what they needed was colorful stain-busting pads that didn’t look like pads.

Here’s where the magic of failure comes in, but it only happened because we sought the wisdom of those we serve, listened and responded with tenacious flexibility. 

How to make a pad not look like a pad

Twenty-three. The number of versions of pads we made to get to the one we have today, which thanks to the wisdom of thousands of women’s feedback and the input of our volunteer network, is culturally, environmentally and physically relevant to women and girls around the globe, including in the United States. We made them colorful to serve as a cheerful stain-buster and we modified them to be square and foldable, so they look like a washcloth, not a pad, busting taboo barriers in their wake. It turned out that by responding to the need to modify there were important bonuses, the liners now washed with 1/4 the water and dried much faster. Thank goodness we listened.

Informed design isn’t the only thing we learned. Those first girls had more to teach us, because we were listening. When they thanked us they explained, “Before you came we had to let ‘them’ use us if we wanted to stay in class.” I hoped that didn’t mean what I thought it meant but it was true, they had been sexually exploited in exchange for simple pads until we brought a solution they could count on month after month. The kits turned out to give them days of health, dignity and opportunity, which is where our name came from. For me learning that they also freed the girls from exploitation has made all we have done for Days for Girls worth it.

Fast forward to today 

Days for Girls kits have reached girls, women and communities in over 75 nations on 6 continents, reversing the cycle of poverty in a simple, direct, effective and yes, surprising way: We help women have access to sustainable feminine hygiene. Who would have guessed that one of the major causes of disempowerment of girls in poverty is their monthly cycle. Many girls cannot afford feminine hygiene products and as a result cannot attend school. A girl absent from school due to menstruation for 4 days of every 28 day cycle loses 13 learning days, the equivalent of two weeks of learning every school term. Studies show that every year of schooling increasing a girl's future earning power by 10 to 20 percent, allowing her to break the cycle of poverty. help girls feel their voice is vital, to be confident and not have to be isolated in their rooms. To understand that menstruation is not a disease to fear nor be shamed by, in fact without periods there would be no people. The impact of sustainable quality feminine hygiene has been breathtaking. One school in Uganda went from an average of 25 out of 100 girls dropping out upon reaching menstruation, to only 4% dropout rate the next year after receiving kits. The impact of our kits, our women’s health curriculum and resulting community conversations has proven to help communities stand up to child trafficking, exploitation and even FGC, female genital cutting. 

Now we are training trainers to make Days for Girls programs their own local enterprises. It'w working.

I was looking for means to reverse cycles of poverty and violence against women. Who would have imagined that one of the keys would fit in a small bag? There are millions of girls and women worldwide who suffer days of isolation, infection, and exploitation due to this single issue-- it will take all of us to reach all of them. With attention to collaboration, and responsiveness to local feedback Days for Girls tackles large systemic challenges with simple solutions that are turning out to be key to social changes. Far beyond what I could even imagine the day I asked the question, “What are the girls doing for feminine hygiene?”  Asking questions and listening with tenacious flexibility and yes, embarrassing failures to find ways to be relevant with the local feedback of those we serve has made all the difference. 

A kit of her own
A kit of her own
Local training on health and kit making
Local training on health and kit making

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Sep 5, 2014

What Happens When You Celebrate Sharing Knowledge

Julie teaches girls at Peace Corps "Girl Tech"
Julie teaches girls at Peace Corps "Girl Tech"

Back to school!  You have made it possible for so many girls to go back to school and stay there with dignity and confidence. Women too, have more opportunties for serving as leaders and building a business in their communities, thanks to you. It has been a busy summer for the Ugandan team of Days for Girls International. We have travelled all over the country, served some amazing people and organizations, and helped expand awareness about the state of menstrual hygiene management in Uganda. Thanks to everyone at Global Giving for your support in this journey! We have made a lot of progress in a short period of time and it is all thanks to our incredible network of supporters around the world.

We are getting great opportunities to share the training models your support has made possible and to expand our reach, working with a diverse group of communities, from South Sudanese refugees to rural farming communities to government officials.  We like to share the individual stories of the girls and women and this time there is so much going on that we wanted to share more of the big picture of what you are making possible.

3000 Women at the South Sudanese Refugee Camp, Adjumani, Uganda

In July, the DfGU team traveled to northern Uganda to conduct a distribution of menstrual hygiene kits for 3,000 South Sudanese refugees. About 2,000 of the kits were sent in from DfG chapters around the world, and the remaining kits were made right in our office in Kampala. In partnership with Uganda’s Ministry of Disaster Relief and the Church of Latter-Day Saints, we ventured to the camp to meet the women and begin the distribution process. Diva, our incredible sewing officer, lead a short training with the women on how to use the kit. Picture 3,000 women... that's a whole lot of restored dignity to those that had lost everything. 

After that, the distribution began! Each of the four DfGU staff members set up a station with an English-speaking South Sudanese counterpart to help translate. The women lined up at the different stations, while children gathered around to see what was taking place. For four hours in the hot sun we handed out the kits to girls and women. After collecting their kits, many of the women stuck around and sat in groups comparing and admiring their kits. It was an incredible experience for everyone involved and we are hoping to go back again soon and distribute in another section of the camp.

Leading Leaders – Meeting DRC Congo Chapter Coordinator Starla

Part of what you have been supporting is helping us refine our programs so that they could be replicated around the globe. We have recently had the great privilege of hosting and training with DRC Congo volunteer Chapter Coordinator, Starla. She is a dynamo and really took our time together seriously. She is laying the foundation for truly exemplary work in Congo and it was an honor to work with her. Your support made that possible.

 Musaale Community Center, Buwagogo, Uganda

Soon after our northern Uganda trip, we trekked off towards Eastern Uganda to work with a wonderful group of women at the Musaale Community Center. We were connected to these women through Days for Girls Australia, and asked to provide a training in kit construction, soap making, and business skills. We were hosted in the home of the Local Chairperson for Buwagogo and enjoyed meals made straight from their garden every day (and milk straight from their cows).

This training was slightly different than any training we have done before because many of the women have been out of school since they were children, and so we adjusted the pace of the lessons to meet their various learning styles and speeds. Overall, the training was incredible. The women showed so much interest and determination to learn the skills we were imparting. Most of them traveled long distances by foot to attend the lessons each day and often brought along their young children or babies. After they completed the soap training, they were excited to take home and sample and try it out for their laundry. We have kept in touch via phone and will be heading back before too long to conduct a follow-up visit.

Days for Girls Kenya, Nairobi, Kenya

Our trip to Kenya was a little different than our previous travels… Instead of conducting any trainings or distributions, we were traveling there to meet with our wonderful Days for Girls Kenya colleagues and to learn about flannel production in Nairobi. We stopped in Nakuru to meet the amazing DfGK team that is Julie and Masese! Their team is preparing to ramp up operations in Kenya using the knowledge our efforts here in Uganda have developed. We enjoyed sharing many ideas and lessons from our experiences. We picked up more quality fabric resources while there too!

Menstrual Hygiene Management Conference, Kampala, Uganda

Although our entire summer has been full and productive as we shared trainings and local empowerment, one of the highlights for all of us was our attendance at the Menstrual Hygiene Management Conference on August 14th and 15th. This conference was hosted by SNV, the Dutch Development Organization, and The Network for Water and Sanitation (NETWAS). There were over 200 participants present, and they represented countries all over Africa, from Uganda to Kenya to Mozambique to Zimbabwe.

Through this conference, we learned about the amazing work being done to address MHM needs at the government level, in the private sector, and among other non-profits and non-governmental organizations. DfGU appreciated being featured there, presenting a paper and PowerPoint presentation on our mission, approach, and model. We met so many amazing people and have been busily scheduling follow-up meetings with each and every one of them. The results and network just keeps growing! 

Up Next…

This fall, we will continue our traveling and networking as we arrange distributions and offer more trainings for school groups, community groups, and even other trainers. All of this work is possible with your support and if you could see the gratitude we see every day, you would know just how vital your support has been. We’re happy to serve and couldn’t do so without your support. Thank you! We’ll report back soon.

South Sudanese refugees register to get their kits
South Sudanese refugees register to get their kits
South Sudanese Ladies awaiting their kits
South Sudanese Ladies awaiting their kits
Their brand new kits
Their brand new kits
Learning to Make Soap with DfG
Learning to Make Soap with DfG
Learning to make their own hygiene kits
Learning to make their own hygiene kits

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